BFF Blow Off

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"My best friend recently started dating a guy from school and their relationship has lasted a year now. Unfortunately ever since he's been with her, she's been a total ghost in my life. She has been blowing me off, leaving me out, and ignoring me unless she needs something. She is my best friend and I don't want to lose our friendship. What should I do?"

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I am really sorry to hear about your friendship, but you should know that the key to all relationships is communication. Have you discussed your feelings to her yet? If not, state some experiences that you felt neglected and how much it affected you. It could be that she is encaptured in her own relationship and that she forgets that there are other people that care for her! She may feel that you will always be present, so she wouldn't have to worry about your position in her life. On the contrary, she could be priortizing her new relationship over you. The best way to confront this situation, is by just talking to her. Best of Luck!


 

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