The first time my mother and father split up I was too young to understand why. I moved with my mom and brother to my mother's parents house. It was the only safe please I felt like I had. My grandparents don't drink. My grandpa had one drink maybe once a year. My mother still drank even without my father around. My father didn't like my grandparents because they knew what he was and they didn't protect him and put up with him. My father would randomly take me and my brother to his parents house and tell me that I need to see them too when i asked why.
