I don't like/support the ddlg, mdlb, cg/l, etc. kink.
I myself used to participate in ddl(g/b) and it was something I used to do for stress relief. Now I understand that what I was doing was age regressing and not being a "little". I don't even like the term "little" ugh. My partner barely participated with me so I was really just on my own in this kink. It was actually really terrible to be in because of how much it hurt my mentality. Like, I was literally being a kid and getting neglected which was how my life at the time was going already so I mean- Even with a partner as my "daddy" he'd never do anything your typical daddy dom would do so it was disappointing. Now, I shouldn't let one experience determine my feelings on it but I read others' experiences and looked deep into the whole community.
Majority of the people I've seen in the community are minors. I am a minor too but I believe I shouldn't be participating in any bdsm related things although I still do some things. Some of the minors are younger than me though and since I'm pretty young it scares me. There are many predators in the community and so many kids get preyed upon. Hell, I got hit on by a bunch of old men. Even after saying I was a minor, they continued to bother me and it's sickening.
The community is kind of toxic. If you say you don't like the kink, a whole bunch of the people who do it will come for you and be like, "You ignorant fuck, don't kinkshame me!!!" or, "Maybe if you educated yourself on it, you would know it's not this or that and you would like it!!" BUT listen here, you can be educated on it and still not like it or support it. You don't even have to be educated on it. No one HAS to like your kink or have to learn about it before having an opinion on it. If they think it's weird then they think it's weird, don't try to bash them and shit. Makes the whole community look annoying as fuck.
A lot of the stuff in this community is also cringy. I don't use that word lightly and I will not delve into this because I'd go on forever, oh god.
I do have friends in this community and I'm sure my sweet darling boy that I love so much is into it but I'm not into it and probably won't be into it ever again. I don't mind being called daddy or being called baby boy (I'd rather be called master/sir or bun but whatever makes my favorite sub happy) but I won't go through the whole dynamic with rules, punishments, etc. Fuck that.
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Tl; dr : Cg/l is toxic, cringy, and scary and I can't ever get back in to it.
