You think that you are doing someone a favor by dating them. Really, all you are doing is leading them on because in reality, you already made a commitment to someone else that you would marry them on a specific day in the future. You are trying to keep them from finding out the truth by telling them lies. That person you are dating is supposed to be your whole world and you could never live without them. It not only hurts you, but the person you made that type of commitment to gets hurt as well. See you say and mean something ,but you go and date someone else showing to the person who you made the commitment to thinks you never really meant the promise you made to them was real. You are hurting the person you are dating because that person loves you but you do not fully feel the same way. Once that specific date is around the corner means that it is time to dump the person you are dating. The truth finally comes out and that person is more hurt than you thought they would because you fed them lies and was not truly honest with them. Karma has a funny way of biting you in the rear end once you do something stupid. You do not know how you do something that could hurt the ones who love you the most. Especially, after you know how much you mean to someone and you say that you did not know. In reality, that person told you almost every day how much you meant to them but you never gave much thought to it. Therefore, it was not the person's fault but your own actions and you cannot do anything to fix what you have done. They still love, care, and want you but they are emotionally hurt and will not trust a few things that you say to them; no matter how many times you mean it. You should not be taking people for the advantage to make yourself feel better or taking them for granted.