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Chapter 16; Compassion and The Should've, Would've, or Could've

A person who listens to their inner self also needs to decide if that inner self is speaking positive or negative. When listening to these thoughts or attributes it can make a difference in how you see yourself with the world around you. Never believe anything anyone says without relevant evidence to back these words up. Listening is also learning and that part of life is a never ending circle that needs to be evaluated with truth in researching.

Compassion is giving yourself and others the benefit of the doubt in all things. Just remember that compassion is not a free pass to allow everything to bother you. Compassion is the defining of what you allow yourself to believe and what you believe to be true and finding evidence to back up those thoughts and feelings. Kindness is not to be confused with compassion.

Defining compassion has many attributes in the human cultures. It is the morality of how one describes it in both negative and positive charges. It is the forgiveness in what you do with information of knowledge in decisions of life. Forgiveness is starting with yourself in accepting who are, what you would like to become, and where to start in the process of becoming the person you would like to be.

The home of "should've, would've, and could've" attributes is so unnecessarily negative. When I say something in the should have context, it is not because it was in the best interest to dwell on it. Instead I use I could have but I did not and now what can I do to learn from it in order not to repeat that same misunderstanding of what I did not want to happen.

I accept that there are things I have done in my past. I may not be proud of them but none the less, I learned from what I call "been there, done that, and have the t-shirt" as quoted in hearing those words from growing up. I learned from those choices in life that make people what they consider humane. Humane is a whole another thought process of each individual and how they define what it is.

Being a child of the upbringing in that humanity consists of courtesy, manners, and respect. In my mind that rates as high as "do unto others what you would have done to yourself." Simplicity, look into a mirror and explain the same thing with reflection in which you look at. This begins to change how things look inside the spirit of the heart in the amount of should haves. Changing the outlook of how you see yourself in the negative and starting to understand the positive side of all walks in life.