If one is blue and the other is yellow and when they come together it somehow makes purple, is it more or less beautiful than if it was green? Every person is going to judge it's beauty differently.
The same can be applied to life. You try to control your life and you know what the outcome of something should be, but instead it becomes something else. What are you to do. You can either accept it and find the beauty or you can revolt and live your life in denial.
