How you met- you were a seamstress in the embrace, he would often come to you when his garments ripped or he wanted something special.
They ask you out- Varl's not gonna shoot his shot without a plan, he always has a plan. So when it came for him to ask you out on a nightly stroll through a path he cleared out just off the one of brave trails, he already had everything planned out to the letter. He finds you outside of your workshop as you're leaving and stops you. " Greetings (y/n), it's a lovely night, wouldn't you say so?" he says smiling. " Indeed it is. " He gestures for you to walk with him and you do because you didn't have any plans that night anyways. " Would you like to go on a walk with me through this path I found just outside of the cradle (y/n)? It's truly stunning, much like the person I'm asking. " He says while walking casually. " Why do I have a feeling this is your way of asking me on a date Varl? "He replies with " It only is if you say yes. " You smile. " Then I guess it's a yes. " He smiles and hates your hand, leading you out to the gates.
How he's like in bed- he's honestly above average but nothing mind blowing with your brain turning to mush kind of guy in bed. He hasn't had a lot of practice considering the limited pool of eligible people in the Nora tribe he's actually been attracted to. He tries for you though, he's open to learn whatever you can teach him.
How they cuddle- he only cuddles if he came home from a long hunt and is exhausted. He just wants to be held by his lover and sleep happily in their arms. Definitely a little spoon.
PDA- he's not too huge on it since he is often in the presence of higher officials in his tribe like his mother and being all touchy feely in front of her is a good way to get hit.