Random Thoughts of a Girl

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Anger :
A strong feeling or annoyance,displeasure or hostility.

Well that is the definition of anger

As a teen,
Who is going through puberty,
Anger issue has always been a problem.
Some has troubled to control their anger.

Why do the teens face a lot of problem to control their anger?
Preferably one,
School is one of the major problem.
They face a lot of pressure in their studies.
Just by being compared with others,
Brings down their confidence level.

Parents do more of the comparison.
They should know better than,
Comparing their own child to others,
It will not motivate them to study hard.
They (teens) will think that,
"I have done my very best,
But why can't you guys just know that I have tried my best."

That was why every time,
The parents started to say something,
Teens would not listen,
And started to rebel against them.

Probably school have been a pressuring thing for them.
Never I mean NEVER,
Pushing them (teens) over their limit,
They will just give up.
They will not want to continue what they wanted to do.

Teens will not just open up,
They need someone,
To be there and listen and support them.
Not giving nasty remarks.
They have enough of that remarks,
They do not want their parents to do the same.

School may have a part in teens anger issue,
But,
Home problem is much worst than that.
Child abuse will give a greater effect.
Hitting a child will not be a way of disciplining them,
They will think that punching others,
Is a way to resolve every problems.

Not saying that I have anger issue,
But seriously,
How many of us have this issue?
Some people even bottled up their own anger.
I do that often just to protect others' feelings