how to love - a guide to relationships

breaking up is sad

no joke today. just alot of my virtual love.

break ups are hard. but they do eventually happen. get comfortable with the idea of them happening.

they're the end of a chapter...

but the beginning of a new book.

now if you want to break up with someone.

yelling:

"I'M DONE WE'RE THROUGH!"

is unhealthy. and just plain rude.

make sure you're both in a comfortable setting. be straight forward with them. let them know why in a respectful way.

and get ready for any reaction.

now if someone is breaking up with you:

listen to why. listen to what they have to say. be respectful and don't yell. don't bottle your emotions. cry. you know you want to.

what's the good in holding it in?

and just remember:

break ups are hard for both parties. it's gonna take time to get over it but you can do it. you've got this.