What I've Learned from Papajack

#2 LOVE

Love starts in give and give

Not give and take...

Learn to give without expecting any returns.

Or you'll end up hurting yourself by expecting much!! Just be happy when you give "happiness" to your love one.

In other words, love each other unconditionally.

(Sometimes, well actually, most of the times.. Heartbreaks start when you expect people to treat you the same way you treat them.. Well, that is not how it is, and never will be.. because everyone's different, and not a single person could ever think or feel the exact same way you do.. And you just have to accept that fact, respect them and live with it.) Yes, kindness begets kindness, SO DON'T STOP CARING AND LOVING. Just be patient and don't expect na lang because time will get that LOVE you're molding.

Yes, I think it is much better not to expect something when he/she is so different from the way you act and think, and for all we know, men are really different from women.  Although, sometimes, we match in some ways (like favorite movies, food, etc) but there is always those things so different from the way you thought about it.  So if ever you expect something, may be he/she had given you the love but you just didn't get it or understand the way he/she treat or give it to you.  For example, he may have given you something that he thought you would like but for him it is the best.   And we just have to respect that.

On the other hand, on the marriage case, most women think it is miserable that your partner does not show much love as you do. Because men works all day and can relax when he's home? thus, women can say, "i wish i could relax with you on the couch too." Or "i wish i could sleep on time as i was before." There's a lot of sacrificing when it comes to marriage. The fact i

(Fact is women and men are two different beings in the way they think and the way they see things!!)

So, so, exhausting!!!

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