Opinions (as a kpop fan)

Idols dating and Jealous stans

Idols Dating:

Be happy for them. They have been going through a lot within stress and depression and if someone could shine a light on them and make them happy then we should be happy too. It doesn't hurt so them there is no need to hate. And if they date out of race then still respect their decision because they may be seriously in love and would die for this person

Jealous stans
Now here is another dark thing about me. I sadly am one. So please listen.

Jealous stans didn't choose to be jealous and as much as they hate the relationship it hits them a certain way and they just don't feel the same vibe as everyone else does.

Here's my situation...
I am a hard Kai stan. When I heard about him and Krystal I was kinda heartbroken.
I gave Kai my all. Kai is literally a reason of my happiness and I respect him in all ways. And my mindset was that I'm an EXO-L. He knows I love him. But when that came out its like reality hit me. I was crying. I was very sad. Every time I saw them on my timeline I would just sit there and stare at how happy he is and stuff and it literally burned my soul to a crisp. It high key hurt because its like o was in love with him.

Being jealous is okay. Just don't tell the world and keep that to urself. You will get hurt if u do.

I put up a blog on amino and ppl were attacking me.
I can't believe he has fans like this
Ew tf?
Ur not gonna have him no matter what. And I'm not being mean I'm being delusional

The last one hit me and I just took it down. When I heard they broke up it took me sometime to listen to EXO again so. Yh...

Just listen
Jealous stans don't choose to be jealous like I said before. We don't want to but its our feelings. And it is a normal human thing when u are jealous

And to any jealous stan reading this. Be very quiet about ur jealousy. Its possible to lose friends and bonds just like me. My friend blocked me because I was telling her how heartbroken I was and saying stuff like oh he don't know u and shit like that. Like I get it dude I came to u for sympathy not to be scolded. But we're on good terms now its okay.

Anyways Let idols date and don't be sad because of ur jealousy. Byeeeeeeee!!!