The whole word, crush, is pretty self ex-planetary.
They crush you, practically. if you honestly don't want to say to your crushes face that you absolutely adore them, just become friend zoned, get as close as you can.
why? why on earth would i want to be friend zoned? here's the thing, once you become their friend they already like you. not in the way you like them, but they are like 'yeah Annie's cool'. they like you. so basically you need to work from there and up to see if they fall for you.
not all of this is going to happen. They might not want to be your friend, they might just not like you because they just don't, the reason i'm stressing this is because people get so caught up in there romance they forget that they can actually be rejected.
FRIEND-ZONE TO LOVE-ZONE:
-OK basically make small talk, don't flirt
- flirting is just gross unless i say other
-basically become there friend, which might like take a year
- be there actual friend, like if they said they dont love you, but would like to be friends... it means you wont walk away.
- this tactic doesnt work like drop and leave, dont use it if your not going to be there friend
-next: basically give them signs your into them such as flat out telling them, you must get out of that barrier, god.
ok lets say your already friends with this person, tell them. or youll die in a hole of anxiety. but eh.
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i feel tired, you should be scared
Romancethis is a junky guide on how to have self love, how to love someone else (tips and blah), and how to finally admit your love after all those months of hurt.
