Eventually.
Break ups hurt.
Most people go through the stages of break up and still come out hurt.
They go through the disbelief, where they believe that it's a passing thing, maybe their partners didn't mean what they said, maybe it's just a break,
Maybe it's all about patience, you think.
Then there's the anger.
You start realizing that this is really happening. You realize that it's over.
Now you're angry. Why did they leave?
You're angry at them, yourself, the world. You're just mad.
Then you start feeling the hurt. The pain. You're now emotionally getting drained by the pain. It fucking hurts but at least you're now aware that it's real.
The hurt may take a long time, it all depends on how you deal with it.
This is where some people completely give up on love, result to self harm, or even worse.
You may question yourself. Find yourself unworthy, this is the most critical part of recovery cause you're so vulnerable.In my opinion, Allow yourself to be loved by those around you. It is hard, but try not to push people away. Of course you need your own time, but try your best not to detouch from them.
Is it hard?
Yes, it can be.
But it's very much doable.
It takes time, but you can do it.And maybe you would not want to hear this cause as you read this it still hurts so much, but eventually you will start to hurt less.
Yes. It will happen.
You will make peace with the separation.
You will start seeing reasons why it was probably for the best.
You will start reinventing yourself.
This is the best part of you ask me.
You go back to your drawing board.
You start remembering who you were before all this.
You reconnect with that version of you had lost contact with cause you got consumed in another person.You slowly start to regain your confidence, your identity.
It will feel amazing.
Be patient with yourself.
It's okay.
You're not weak.
You're enough.
You're amazing.
You will be okay.
You will be revived.
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REVIVAL.
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