People are so stupid. Like why? Everyone has some sort of common sense. Use it. It's not that hard. And I hate when people hide their feelings, the people who care about you don't wanna sit there and guess what's bothering you forever. Just tell them, be blunt. Blunt is best, don't leave people guessing, because their minds are only gonna conjure up the worst. I can tell you, that never ends well.
To the people who are trying to guess what the other person is feeling, don't. Don't assume. Just ask the person directly. The person is most likely going to come clean and tell you everything they're feeling if you just ask. That's the problem, we don't ask. We are too scared to. We shouldn't be scared to ask because in the end, we will never know, which will make us think more and conjure up more bad things that will most likely never even happen. You might be afraid of what will happen, but honestly, what's the worst that can happen. I know that's just a saying, but think about it, the worlds not gonna end if you ask someone a question. It's quite easy really.
Life might seem hard and scary, but it's only as hard and scary as we make it. Don't think too much. We think too much, and scare ourselves. It starts off simple, keep it that way.