Expectations...
Let's say you're a parent, you want what's best for your child, so you push them to get good grades so they can get a good job, but you have to understand this, your child is a person, when you push them, you have to realize, they have limits...
I was in a contest to see who is going to get into a higher class, I didn't get it as I didn't meet the criteria, my mom got mad, and said, "All your siblings got into higher classes, you have too as well" and that's where she failed to realize, I'm still considered a kid, I have limits, stop pushing them all because my siblings had better classes, she said I didn't get in because, in her words "Didn't try hard enough" I tried, I really did, but the stress of wanting to please people weighed me down...
