so im going to sound like the biggest nerd right now and say that i did some research on this. i wanted to see what it meant for the actions and the way my ex behaves around me because it has really been getting to my head. so enjoy the list of typical question i ask myself everyday about this guy.
1. what does it mean when a boy gives you mixed signals?
When a guy is sending confusing signals, it usually means he's either ambivalent or maybe somewhat interested, but not interested enough. And in these cases, nothing you say or do will change that. You cannot convince someone to want you, and no amount of wanting him will make him want you back.
2. what does it mean when a boy looks at you a lot?
A guy who is staring at you often clearly likes you. He can think of no good reason to talk to you and also does not want to lose the opportunity to get close to you. So, instead, he stares at you waiting for you to stare back, exchange a smile or start a conversation.
3. how do you know a boy likes you?
To know if a guy likes you, pay attention to his body language when he's around you. If he looks at you a lot or leans in toward you when you're talking, it could mean he likes you. Also, watch how he treats you when you're in a big group of people.
i feel like im looking into things way more than i need too. but he as a girlfriend, and he continues to following along with the actions that i questioned up above. i truly dont understand men. if he really wants me why doesnt he just commit to me? when guys are scared, it really effects the whole situation. i dont know if hes bored of his girlfriend at this point, but that doesnt mean it gives him the right to give me mixed signals by the way he talks to me and the looks i receive from him. it really messes with me and at this point i dont know what to do. i dont have the courage to ask him what it's about. im scared of the outcome and him and i are finally okay as friends right now. i feel like i just need to wait it out a bit more. i like the way things are right now to a certain extend and i lowkey dont want to lose his attention completely at this point because thats all im going to get.
okay im done now ahah. comment below is you struggle with the same or similiar thing with boys? how do you get through everyday with the way he treats you yet he has a girlfriend? and does it effect you the way that it effect me?
