CRUSH TIPS!!! And some stuff...

To start...

What is love?
—-((Yeah, you might know what it is but please try summarising it all in a few paragraphs... it's hard isn't it. Here...))——

Love is a blend of physical attraction, emotional connection and constant attachment.  Love cannot be defined in just a few words, more like a few paragraphs.  Love has long been the speculation and muse of poets, songwriters and lyricists. All putting their own particular spin on this element of the human condition.

As we all know, there are different types of love other than romantic love.  There is familial love between parent and child or siblings.  But for our purposes, this is just about romantic love and the ancient Greeks had seven different words which reflect the different stages of falling in love and being in love.

Storage – indicating a natural and gentle affection
Philia – caring and devoted friendship
Eros – erotic and sexual
Agape – pure and divine love, unconditional
Ludus – flirtatious
Pragma – grounded, committed love, married love
Philautia – self-love

If love were represented by colour, there would be present all the tones of the rainbow with shades in between.  That is why love is so hard to define but it is part of the human condition to want a definition, to coral it, catch it so we can understand it and apply it to our own situation.

Heh... I just copy-pasted that whole thing. Sorry, I don't remember which site it was.
However
SHOUT OUT TO THE WONDERFUL PEOPLE WHO MADE ITTTTT!!!

It is good. Real good.
I trust them and this was an outstanding summary.
So, here you are reading it. You are most welcome.

Which one of the 7 are you feeling...?
🥺♥️

For me love is-

is the plural of loaf.

🤨

You know-
Love

Hehe... ŁôVè

If you didn't notice, I was joking.

I'm a dumbass. Sorry.

I have a weird sense of humour. Don't mind me
Oh, wait. I'm distracted again. THIS BOOK IS ABOUT CRUSH TIPS AND THIS IS NOT HELPING. FOCUSSSSS.

Now, how about "LIKE".

-a feeling that you like someone or something; the fact of liking someone or something:

-To like someone as friends not as far as loving them

So,
From a 1 being "I don't really like them that much" to a 100 "I think my 'like' has turned into 'love'"
Rate where you are.

NOWWWW!!!
How about "CRUSH"

-To deform, pulverize, or force inwards by compressing forcefully.

Whoops, wrong definition

Oh, wait...

Here is a long summary of it:

I think many people often mistake crushes and infatuation with love. It's easy to see how the two are mistaken for love because the feelings are so intense, but there is a difference. A big difference in fact. In the movies, adorable couples infatuated with each other fall in love and live happily ever after, right?

In real life, things tend to be a little different.

Crushes and infatuation go hand in hand, and are very similar. Crush is defined as a brief but intense infatuation for someone, especially someone inappropriate or unattainable. Infatuation is defined as an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone or something.

Unlike crushes and states of infatuation, love truly sees and accepts their object of affection. Love is an intense feeling of deep affection. Love is patient, love is understanding, and love is forgiving. Love desires a deep connection, while infatuation craves physical interactions.

From:
https://www.charleneeckstein.com/blog/love-vs-crush-infatuationwhats-the-difference

Now,

Crush and Like is different from love. That's obvious, right? But sometimes when you REALLY like a person , you won't see a difference. Don't just rush into things. That is why I'm telling you to go slowly...

When we feel "love", different hormones from our body gets released. Weirdly, the same hormones get released when we are in a near-death experience.
You know that good light feeling after you almost got hit by a car..? Well, love kinda feels like that but longer. Your body overflows your body with hormones such as cortisol, serotonin and adrenaline.
Those butterflies you feel in your stomach? Cortisol levels raise up and the body goes into a flight-or-fight mode.

Technically this following things are usually thought of by the person who is feeling "love", infatuation and crushes:

"yes?! I want to have a relationship"
"No?! I wanna hide my emotions"
"Idk what I'm feeling."
"Should I love them or no"
"My heart beats so fast when YV is near"
"There are butterflies in my stomach"
"Should I tell YV, I love YV"
"YV is so perfect"
"Why cant YV just love me?!"
"I like YV"
"I think I love YV!"

Sounds like you?

Weirdly, exactly like you?

Heh, I've been stalking you.
Tip: close your windows and stop posting your diary online. I can see them 🙂

Anyways TO THE NEXT CHAPTER WEEE GOOOOO