(Advice and isms from a deep thinking gypsy)
If someone loves you they shouldn't want you to change for them.
They should want you to change for you.
You're not in charge of someone's happiness or life.
Do what you can to help them. But at the end of the day they're the only ones responsible for their own safety.
Love isn't wondering what they can do for you,
It wondering what you can do for them to make them the best them they can be.
People and dogs both learn from pain more then they do from coddling.
As long as you're there afterwards with a band aid and a healthy dose of compassion.
Vulnerability is a strength few people possess.
With friendships and google applications you have to ask yourself "what are they getting out of this?"
If someone does something wrong to you. It's not your fault. Even if it makes you sick at your stomach, you're not the guilty one.
Lemme know if you like these ism's :) I may write more.
