GIVING FAIRNESS TO THIS UNLIT SPHERE

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Here's to an anecdote of a girl who was born and raised in different regions, being influenced by a wide variety of customs and traditions. Being a girl child, her family always thought of her as a curse to their social, emotional and financial stabilities, which, would have been better taken care off if they were blessed with a boy. But Almighty had something else decided for this family.

So, girls of today's world expect to be understood by their loved ones, in every sphere. Parents, these days, are coming out of their nutshells just to provide best of their upbringing to their children. But there always lies a generation gap between them. Parents act like they want to be friends with us but also, they get protective and act orthodox in many perspectives. Well, they ain't wrong because their main aim is to secure us from all sorts of negativities. But, keeping in minds the sentiments of how women have been perceived as; they should set us free to act.

FRIENDS, sounds good, right? In today's world, friendships have got confined to partying, boozing, gossiping and Instagramming, very few realize the true sense of having friends. There is always a person in everyone's life, we call them as best friend. We share an elusive kind of bond with them, sharing all sort of tits and bits. Then, all of a sudden, there comes a Doom's Day when they find some better "best friend" and distort away from us. Hurts, right? Whoever is reading this and connected to some incident of their lives, I know you've suffered from some traumatic incident. Probably, you could have been thinking of closing this tab and not to read this blog anymore. I just want to convey one message. Friendships are often more realized by the ones having real eyes because only "real eyes can realize real lies". Don't be heartbroken if you feel departed away from someone you were emotionally dwelled into. There's always a silver lining to black clouds; you're strong, you're socially ambivert and you can find great acquaintances, be it where-ever you work. Just make sure that you remember the silence of your friends and not the words of your enemies.

The vision of women psychology demands more of listening from their friends and people gathered in a social circle. So, girls need more of your persistency and consistency to listening. We don't always need a solution; we don't always want to cry over our issues; just make sure that you listen and don't just start reacting right away. Girls need to be heard first and then understood. Men might complain that understanding a woman is toughest. When did you last try just listening to her? Well, try doing this for some days and you'll get the results.

It's a well-known human tendency to know both sides of the coin. So, it is possibly the right time to tell all of you about the consequences.

When girls are dominated, there could be variable reactions around. The most dangerous of all is when we get helpless getting a feel that none could understand us inside out. We feel suicidal because there's no silver lining left in human interaction. We start faking out in front of our friends and start getting detached from our families. We feel like getting rid off this human chain of being an extrovert, charming, glowing and a freely moving interactive person. There's something really beautiful about being broken. Your emotions no longer sustain, you don't feel connected and may be that's the reason of most of the suicide cases. It's easy to give up on your life when there persist no emotions, feelings, commitments to anyone around.

But when nature wants you to sit and create your own beautiful life in her lap; you will be alive. You will be breathing. And when you're breathing, there is no going back. START LIVING RATHER THAN JUST BREATHING.

All of us have inner beautiful carnations, find them out and sustain your life around it.

I have been in a very close soul-in-soul connection with a girl who has seen her Death and still came back to life. Months after her recovery from physical injuries, she started blacking out from the goal of her life. The accidental death of her companions had filled her heart with a guilt of passing away as well. The negative comments and broken trust of her parents and closed ones made her feel that there was no use of her being alive. It seemed better for her to just slide away from the world. But Nature wanted her to create a beautiful life for herself so she was blessed with a FRIEND, a real one. This friend showed her the path, planted in many lights so as the darkness fades away and she gets a bright vision to her unanswered doubts. He stood up against the world to give this girl; peace, love and stability with emotions. She never knew that he would turn out to be a blessing in disguise, it felt like a soft peck of all sort of worldly love and joy on her face.

All of his efforts to make the girl stand up independently against all pessimism started proving well. Both of them found their peaceful confined places in each other, acting like pillars of strength. And the fairy-tale love gist of "stay strong in faith and soft in love" seem to be true in its sense.

Well, to all my girls out there; learn how to handle conflict with ease and let's stop the conventional trend of pleasing everyone around us. Just know your stuff and move on. In your life, never restrict opportunities coming in your way, discover the love around yourself. The right love will always make you stand up and it will always stay together. And even if you find the love which was never made for you, don't be disheartened and feel unfortunate. Just know that failures carve you in a better and stronger person you were before.

BECOME A PERSON OF VALUE AND LET YOUR VOICE BE HEARD.

Always try giving out the fairness of your values and thoughts to the unlit spheres of pessimism, dominance and conventional trends.