Secrets why great men fail

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THE SEX EXAM
First of all I want to start by appreciating each and every one of us for following and reading my posts, I pray may God bless you and increase you in every side
Am gonna be talking about something very important and very crucial, that we must all pay attention to as children of God,  THE SEX EXAM
If you check around today SEX has been, or premarital SEX rather has become a normal thing not only in our society but in the world at large, most of us that read the MYSTERY POWER OF A WOMAN i posted,  I wrote some stuffs there about sex, premarital sex and its repercussions, the SEX EXAM, of SEX TEXT is one part we must all face or go through in life,  why?  Now,  the devil is has sense, he is smart, but he doesn't have wisdom and he is not wise,  the devil have used this thing called SEX to damage peoples life and also bring down mighty men,  who are doing powerfully in ministry,  health factor and other areas e.t.c
Take a look Samson, the devil knows the philistines couldn't defeat him,  a nation couldn't defeat him, but a woman did,  bow take a look at the story of Joseph in the Bible.....
You'll find the story in the book of Gen 39:1-20
Now there is something I discovered,
Verse 6 of that same chapter says  6
KJV:And he left all that he had in Joseph's hand; and he knew not ought he had, save the bread which he did eat. And Joseph was a goodly person, and well *favoured*.
Verse 7 fine-looking.
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KJV:And it came to pass after these things, that his master's wife cast her eyes upon Joseph; and she said, Lie with me.
Now listen for Joseph masters wife to have said this,  she must be very beautiful and seductive, and also attractive as well
But listen to what a man who fears God said
Verse 9
KJV:There is none greater in this house than I; neither hath he kept back any thing from me but thee, because thou art his wife: how then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?
You see that
Now many of us have faced similar situations like this and have failed and some have passed and thought that was all,  many of us think as we've escaped 1 that's it, till I get married, no sir, no ma
Let me show you something  again
Verse 10
KJV:And it came to pass, as she spake to Joseph day by day, that he hearkened not unto her, to lie by her, or to be with her.
ESV:And as she spoke to Joseph day after day, he would not listen to her, to lie beside her or to be with her.
NIV:And though she spoke to Joseph day after day, he refused to go to bed with her or even be with her.
AMP:She spoke to Joseph day after day, but he did not listen to her, to lie with her or to be with her.
You see that,  that is,  she came again and kept on calling on Joseph to lie with her,  so prepare, you've escaped one, more are still coming,  more are still coming. Even me I have face the sex test several times and I know more are still coming even tough ones,  but God will not allow you face temptation you can't handle,  it pains alot when I see men fail and fall for this things,  it takes the grace of God to stand strong as a man even after marriage, I have heard some men say, ahhh if na woman na small thing, me and woman fit stay inside room naked nothing go happen,  na mind you just need to get. And I just laugh,  in my mind i'll this men are yet to face some certain people that gifted by the devil to seduce you even with out pulling of their clothes, am sorry to say this but its the truth,
Let me show you something again 😇this is getting interesting
Let move to verse 11
KJV:And it came to pass about this time, that Joseph went into the house to do his business; and there was none of the men of the house there within.
Joseph was minding his business jeje,  now you see devil ba,  devil is very trickish, and there was no men in the house,  that is,  they we're left to them selfs alone in the house, that is,  if Joseph sleeps with her no body will know,  he will just go freely and after having may be 10-15mins of sex,  a married man was asked in a mens meeting I attended some time ago, *"how long can you have SEX"* and he said 👉10minutes,  maximum 15 minutes,  and we're I sat down I said waaaat,  so this sex I have been hearing about is just for 10-15 minutes and I was thinking is for hours or something 😂
Then I said to my self if its for 10-15 mins why not wait till I get married,  were am I rushing to 🤷🏽‍♂️
Many people, many boys and girls,  many men and women have wasted their lives with just 10minutes
See let me tell you every wait you wait,  there is a reward,  God is not a stupid God,  He is mindful of everything and does not forget, He rewards us accordingly,  let me not divert first,  let's go back to the scriptures, this is sweeting me 😇
See the devil is smart, he has sense, but he doesn't have wisdom  and he is not wise,  let's go back to the scriptures
Verse 11 ESV:But one day, when he went into the house to do his work and none of the men of the house was there in the house
No body was there,  free chance to do 10minutes or even 5 minutes and go away with out being seen
Now verse 12 AMP:And she caught him by his garment, saying, Lie with me! But he left his garment in her hand and fled and got out [of the house].
And she held him and caught him and say come and have sex with me,  come and use just 5minutes to waste your destiny,  come and be a slave to me
But the B part of that verse said *"But he left his garment in her hand and fled and got out [of the house]."*
Now I went on research for the meaning of *FLED* and I found this 👉🏽to run away, as from danger or pursuers; take flight.
You see that, so Joseph didn't walk, he didn't limp, he didn't crawl,  he didn't just run I think it was even more than run sef,  as if he was going to fly
Lolsss if it were some of us,  after sleeping with their masters wife,  they would say its not my fault,  I tried to run but she held me,  so I to just.....,  after all it just 5mins sharp sharp no body saw us, 
Let go back to the scriptures, I know many of us might listened to massages like this but not this way
Verse 13 NIV:When she saw that he had left his cloak in her hand and had run out of the house,
So her plan did not work, See  what she naw did
Verse 14 AMP:She called to the men of her household and said to them, Behold, he [your master] has brought in a Hebrew to us to mock and insult us; he came in where I was to lie with me, and I screamed at the top of my voice..
You see that 😂😂haaa he didn't do what she wanted and she lied against him
Do you know had it been Joseph spent with her,  he would have been enslaved to her and he wouldn't have fulfilled his dreams, he wouldn't have gotten to that level he got to
Let me show you on example how he would have become a slave to her :- she might need may be a cup of water, let's assume she stays in a 10 story building, am just setting an example,  and she needs a cup of water and the cup of water is about 10 step away from were she is and may be Joseph in may at the last floor or may be some where in the field doing his work,  she might just send for him to come and give her the cup of water and you know naw,  then no elevator,  so he has to use the steers, you see that I just sighted an example with that and lots more,  he would have been a slave to her and will not have achieved his dreams,  a man of vision, a man of dreams can not but distracted but rather obsessed with his goal, vision and dreams not matter what comes his/her way
Now after she reported the lie to Joseph's master
Verse 20
KJV:And Joseph's master took him, and put him into the prison, a place where the king's prisoners were bound: and he was there in the prison.
God is saying let me keep you here first I have greater plans for you, you have passed my test,  wait here
Verse 21 ESV:But the Lord was with Joseph and showed him steadfast love and gave him favor in the sight of the keeper of the prison.
Even in the prison God was still with him, and even favoured him,
Wow look at this please follow me gradually
verse 22 KJV:And the keeper of the prison committed to Joseph's hand all the prisoners that were in the prison; and whatsoever they did there, he was the doer of it.
You see that, someone that just came to the prison was naw in charge of everything happening there,  was it not suppose to be that the person who has stayed longer to be the leader,  but  in josephs case it was different, what an awesome God
God will reward you for every sacrifice you make in Jesus name....
Verse 23 AMP:The prison warden paid no attention to anything that was in [Joseph’s] charge, for the Lord was with him and made whatever he did to prosper.
You see that.  That is he was so sure and settled that Joseph will handle everything well with supervision
You could continue reading that passage to know more about how Joseph life turned around totally
I pray for you. May you not fall in to to temptation,  my brothers and sisters I tell you,  temptation will come,  they will always come that's why the Bible says *"pray so you don't fall in to temptation "*
I over heard some men talking some few days ago and one of them said if he makes his wife angry,  she deprives him of sex,  no no no women reading please,  its not suppose to be so, and he said if he wants to have SEX with his wife he has to buy her rapper or something to compensate her for sex,  habba,  you're just punishing the innocent man,  what if he has no money that means no sex at all,  or you want him to go and steal and when he gets caught you'll naw blame him,  what ever you don't give your husband at home another person is willing to give him outside and this time, for free 🤷🏽‍♂️
I have seen men who in the same roof,  not outside ohh,  the same roof,  sleeps with the wifes sister who comes to help with house chores and all,  and please mind what your house helps of sisters wear in your husbands house,  am not saying its wrong but prevention I far better,  you can prevent a pregnancy but you can't cure it most time trying you clear it leads to death,  I have heard of some homes were by the wife's sister ties towel around all the time  in her sisters husbands house,  and you expect nothing to happen, no matter how anointed that man is,  see let me tell you one secret about men,  men we are moved by what we see,  *DAVID saw bathsheba and he fell*, with out even minding she was somebody's wife,  see guide your anointing with all jealousy,  guys guide your eyes , ladies guide your eyes
Even me Paul Jr have faced "SEX TEXTS",  a girl came to me some time ago,  I was on my own jeje and she said is me she wants wants to play love play with,  I said ahhh, please ohh,  and was touching me,  adrenaline was already secreting, 😂😂ahhhh,  I had to run for my life ohh😂
A lady some time ago just said to me Paul I love your smile,  I said thank you and I walked away,  jeje
there is  a place I stayed some time ago,  this girl watch our lives and say that this guy,  is far different from others and he knows what he is doing and he knows were he is going,  this girl tried heaven on earth to make me respond to her seductive act but i didn't,  wearing all manner of rubbish waat,  my brothers and sisters it only takes the grace of God,  me that came to visit someone for a period of time, it even got to an extent I came out of the room at the very early hours of the morning this girl left opened the bathrooms bathing,  ahhhh,  some of us will just continue staring,  until they stare a baby in to her stomach,  but no I turned my face immediately  nd left with speed, the last time I checked she's currently having a baby,  a very young girl,  please be careful I beg of you,  don't say you can handle it,  don't say you can control your self,  it takes the grace of God,  if highly anointed men could fail this tests what more of you,  may you not fail in term of trial in Jesus Christ name....
See this thing is very large,  larger than you think
Let me share this last story as I round up
There is this brother and a sister,  dating each other happily,  they promised their selves not to have sex till they get married,  a night came the girls was at his house and it was dark inside with deemed lights,  perfect moment ryt 😉,  the girl placed her head on his Lap,  feeling romantic,  and they began to talk till they got intimate to its extreme,  before you necking started,  before you kissing from the neck head and all,  you know better 😁 so the guy had to stop her,  look at what he did he just got up and told her to wear her shoes they should go to a mall of a restaurant or something to get what to eat, an that's how they left and and they started talking about a different thing and after staying there till the urge left her,  she naw said to him 👉🏽"thank you very much for not allowing me" I couldn't control my self......
I have been some several ladies either somewhere alone and before you some sort stupid stupid attraction called lost will just start,  someone that came for advice and counseling ohh,  will naw start giving me some strange signals ahhh,  i'll just sharply control my self and adjust,  and tell my self Paul Jr oya listen "the journey is far " and i'll just adjust,  many times we may not want but our emotions term to control us,  that's why we need the grace of God control our selfs,  trust me we see different things every day even as Gods messengers,so many experiences i've had, if I begin to tell you all ,you'll spend almost a day reading this post like a novel,   the funny part is that I naw know how to draw again,  I've heard alot of people tell me I wish I had your gift I would gotten a lot of girlfriends,  any fine girl I See I will just draw her and gift it to her and ask for her number 😂👉🏽👉🏽😂
I'll just laugh and tell them that's why God refuse to give you thus gift cus you'll mis use it,  the least friends I use to have before are guys,  either football , school or art that brings us together,  is now I naw have more female friends sef due to fashion illustration and relationship mentoring and all,  many people have been asking if am single or not lolsss
am still single tho 😇searching or not searching?
We'll leave that one for another day 😁
I believe we've been blessed  by this word today, I had compress it a bit, unless you might keep on reading for hours, but I pray for you as you've read receive grace to apply in Jesus name...... Receive grace to over come every test and trial in Jesus name..... And finally receive grace to pass every SEX EXAM coming your way in Jesus precious name.......
You're blessed
Now if you know you're yet to accept Christ or you've accepted him either through peer pressure, sexual sin or any form of sine.t.c you've backslided I want to pray this prayers 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼
Lord Jesus I come to you today,  i come as a sinner cleans me with your blood and write my name in the book of life,  I believe with my heart and I confess with my mouth and I proclaim that Jesus is lord,  thank you Jesus for accepting me......
Now hold on as I pray for
FATHER THANK YOU FOR ACCEPTING THIS ONE, I SPEAK AS YOUR SERVANT OVER THIS ONES, AFFLICTION SHALL NOT ARISE THE SECOND TIME,  YOU ARE PRESERVED BY THE BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST,,HELP IS COMING FOR YOU, I SAID HELP I COMING FOR YOU....
Thank you precious Jesus
In Jesus Christ name we have prayed.....
Congratulations congratulations congratulations
Welcome to light, you're now a new creature old things are past away all things are new,  God bless you
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Shalom......
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