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Does a guy like you?

From Anonymous:

Does a guy like you if he tries to be all macho around you or attempts to prove himself? My crush has done this a few times and I really can't tell! Your help is appreciated ;)

Answer:

Well, it depends. There's no defined way to know if a guy likes you or not. Is he trying to act all strong and prove himself only when you're there or when you're with other people? That is one of the things you need to think about. Is proving himself and acting all macho in his nature or does he just do that around you? If he just does those things around you, then yes, I would say he has a crush on you.

I'll give you a few ways to know if he likes you for sure:

1- Is he able to look you directly in the eye when you're pretty close? If he can't, then that's one way to know that he likes you. I can look into my crushes eye from far, but when I look into his eyes and I'm close to him, then I just melt and I have to look away.

2- Does he try to act all silly and funny and weird in front of you? If he does then that's another way to know that he likes you. I always act supper silly in front of my crush and I always try to be funny.

3- Does he sometimes look at you, and then you look back and he quickly turns away? If he does, then he probably likes you. I always spy on the cuteness of my crush, and when he catches me looking, I quickly turn away and blush a little.

These are some tips from my experience, but I'll give you a way to know if he likes you for sure.

Girly we are about to do something a little mean using our girl power ;)

This is what you do:

-Get a brother or cousin or just a guy friend that your crush doesn't know.

-Make that person come to you and act all lovey dovey, or ask him to hug youor something.

-Ask a friend to look at your crushes expression or how he's acting, or ask her to videotape his reaction discretely so that you can examine it closely.

-Go to your crush and introduce him to your brother/cousin/guy friend and see his reaction.

So if you took a video, look at the video closely and try to detect these few things:

-If your crush is having a conversation with someone while you were being hugged, does he glance discretely at you or does he look over his or his friends shoulder?

-Does he look a little angry or sad?

-When you introduce your brother/cousin/guy friend to your crush, does he looked relieved? Does his shoulders even so slightly relax?

I really hope I helped you find out whether or not your crush has a crush on you. I hope he does!

Best of luck~ @TheWeirdoWhoIsCool