*-~*Relationships*~-*
Ok so.... I'm not great in relationships, buh I can try to give tips. When you date someone you wanna make sure you're happy with that person first. You like how they act and you see yourself with them in life. There's important aspects I'll go over in this paper that people can go over. So I guess I'll just start.
So... the first thing I can go over is what people, (usually girls) want in a relationship. So the list is;
People are known to enjoy wearing their boyfriend's/girlfriend's hoodies or sweatshirts.
Hold their hand. Rather it's when you're in a movie, or walking somewhere, or just sitting down and chiling. Hold their hand or touch your hand to theirs.
Kiss their forehead, or the top of their head. It's a cute little thing to let them know you care.
If you're hanging around your friends or family, don't change the way you treat them. Obviously no P.D.A, buh don't treat them differently around your friends at all. It hurts them to think you don't want people to know what you guys do.
Treat this person like a person, not property.
Unless you can't drive, it's cute when you put your hand on her thigh or hold her hand while you're driving.
Call her randomly. Even if you know she isn't sleeping and it's 3 am. Just to hear her voice or because you miss her. If she calls you and you're busy, try to excuse yourself for a moment. She'd do the same for you. Always call her if you haven't spoken in awhile.
Check in on her. Even if it's just to see how she is. Don't ask her "What are you doing?" ask her "How are you doing?"
Girls find it very cute, maybe even hot when you kiss them to get her to stop talking. If she is going on and on about her not being perfect, or putting herself down, or just random stuff, kiss her. It's cute.
Plan dates. Don't have her do everything. Just randomly ask her "Hey, you wanna go see this movie?" or "Wanna go to the park some time to chill or play football or something?"
Always open the door for her, it's an act of kindness
If she's crying, hug her. Don't say anything. Just hug her.
Call her back if she ever hangs up on you when she'd sad or mad
Be good with kids. Girls love when guys are good with little kids. They fantasize about the future
Compliment her... let her know she's always beautiful. There's a difference between "hot" and "beautiful"
Be proud of her... even if she messed up on a test or something, be proud
Pay for dates even if she doesn't want you to.
If she falls asleep on your lap or next to you, holding you, don't move her, just lay there even if the temperature is getting hot or you're uncomfortable because the couch is hard or a pillow is scratchy.
Last on this least, but love her for her.
Girls love funny conversations. Don't always keep them serious. Laugh with her, have a good time. Imagine them and you are in your kitchen. You're older, have your own house. You're both in the kitchen making pancakes, singing into the spatula. Slow dancing around the kitchen as you hold her tight, laughing and getting pancake batter everywhere. That's love. Eating ice cream at midnight together, that's love. Hug her from behind, it's cute.
A fun project I've done, is make a small (or big) checklist of dates or things you want to do with them. Show it to them maybe. It'll be good to know what you both love doing. Make sure you guys aren't only "dating" make sure you're best friends too. Knowing her favorite things and her past, know what she's scared of it good to know. Protect her from anything she's scared of. If you ever hear anyone talking bad about her, or you see someone is making her uncomfortable or made her cry, talk to them. If they made her cry or you see they're making her uncomfortable, stand up for her. Walk up, put your arm around her. Let her know you're there for her. If you gotta fight the guy or something, do it. Anything to protect her.
Don't ever use them. Make sure you make them feel important. If you're ever in the "bed" or what not, do not hurt them. Make sure they wanna do what you're doing as well. Don't ever take advantage or play with a girl's feelings. Touch her heart, not her body (at inappropriate times). Make her smile, don't waste her tears. You crave their presence. Like, you'd literally be sitting down next to them in silence and you'd be happy. She may be annoying, buh you still love her. Ask about how she's feeling. Worry about her, make sure she eats. Make sure she's ok. Know her facial expressions and tones and her actions so you can read her. Take cute pictures of you both. Like, with her on your back like a koala and in the mirror pictures. Let her straddle you and hold you while you play your video games. She should be your princess and your homie. If you ever date me, I don't care where we are or what we're doing buh I will show all my love you deserve. Take photos of her sleeping in your lap.
If you're ever jealous of her with her guy friends, let her know. She'll come and give you all the attention you want. All of this really applies to me. I'm kinda just writing about what I want in a guy... heh, I'm lonely. Anyway, continuing with this. I don't care how grown you are, but being held like a baby or a little kid, feels so good in the heart. I want someone who's happy to have me but scared to lose me at the same time. A relationship you can act like idiots together is the best thing ever. You'll end up dating your lover and best friend in one person. Ok so next one may be awkward... but here are some girls turn ons;
When he calls you baby
When he texts back immediately
When he gives you his hoodies
Puts his hand in your back pocket
Wants to call you often
Pulls you back when you pull away from a kiss
He loves you for you
When he says I love you
If he knows how to make you smile
Turn offs;
When he takes a long time to respond
He calls you hot, not beautiful
He blows you off or ignores you
When he's inconsiderate
When he leaves you on open/read
Make sure to always love her, even if she's still learning to love herself. Ok, she'll want to be next to you at 4:36 am, when I wake up in your arms and you whisper "Shh, go back to sleep." She would kiss your soft lips, you would hold her tighter, keep her safe. As she drifts off to sleep you close your eyes and smile, because she is all you will ever need and want.
*-~*A Girl's Perspective*~-*
So for me... if you're still reading (Which I'll be surprised if you are) I hope you don't mind if I wrap my legs around yours, lay my head above your heart, run my hands through your hair, play footsie with you, put my hand on your tummy, play with your hands, give you fishy kisses, talk about my day, sing you a song, fall asleep in your arms, or... love you to death
