Tie Me and Love Me

Why Vary the Theme?

We use sexual contact for only two reasons.

The first is of course procreation of the species, the second is for pleasure, using the most subtle and finely tuned senses that we have.

We unconsciously link this seeking of pleasure with other external stimuli that may have been generated within us during the innocence of childhood, where behaviour patterns or the smell or touch of things long forgotten re-awaken to affect our sexual relationships and inclinations.

Only ingrained attitudes of selfishness prevent sexual fulfillment, the self interest that can turn a potentially beautiful relationship into little more than a quick fuck, whether involving anything kinky or not.

The human spirit in true partnership with another contains the inherent need to give and take, to strive for needs and to luxuriate in gifts bestowed.

So it is with sexual adventures. Constant creativity is vital if ongoing interest is to be maintained., tender domination opens the doors to endless delight in loving, the removal of free will and the unconditional gift of control to another shows trust in the absolute sense.

The compulsion of one who desires to be compelled is an infallible guarantee of explosive passion.