I've always been confused of what defines one as being"beautiful"or"handsome"?is it the colour of the eye or the size of the nose?Does make-up matter or not? They say that a smile is a curve that perfects everything but what if mine makes people run away?Why should skinny girls be called "bones"and fat girls be bodyshamed?Aren't we all equal?Why should a girl not be noticed by a boy simply because she's skinny or dark.These are the eventualities we have to face everyday.But I always say never let a person define who you are.People never define who you are. You might different but being different is what made people like Bill Gates be successful not forgetting Jack Ma.Never let yourself be used by anyone never struggle to fit in,being different is what makes you unique. Be merciful to yourself.Always aim high coz the sky will always be the limit.Accept change coz intelligence is the ability to accept change.