Season of waiting

Wait for someone kind.

Wait for someone respectful, not only in the beginning stages of the relationship when things are bright and beautiful, but also when things get hard. Wait for someone who respects your boundaries and does not force you to do things that you’re not willing or ready to do.

Wait for someone who is giving and does not keep count of the good things they do for you.

Wait for someone who challenges you mentally. Someone who inspires you to be a better person.

Wait for someone who takes their time to learn and understand you.

Wait for someone who is consistent with their efforts in showing you how much they care about you.

Wait for someone who wants to be part of your world, and wants you to be part of theirs.

Wait for someone who lets you know you’re on their mind, someone who checks in on you, someone who wants you to know that they care for you.

Wait for someone who is willing to commit to you, someone who is willing to choose you.

Wait for someone who makes love feel easy, calm. Like coming home.

Wait for someone sincere. Someone who doesn’t confuse you because their actions match their words. Wait for someone honest.

Wait for someone who does their absolute best to not hurt you, someone who strives to protect your heart.

Wait for someone who will choose you over and over and over again. Love is a choice you make every single day. You deserve to find the kind of person who shows up for what you share, someone who believes in it.

Wait for someone who’s not perfect, but rather, real. Perfect is an illusion. Real is where you find something rare and special.

Wait for someone who reminds you that love was always meant to be soft.

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To the man who believes that a woman is a treasure, I truly admire you. I wonder where you are. I wonder if you’re near or far. No matter what it takes, I will patiently wait and desire to meet you. I have been hooked with the technological innovation, that I have forgotten my own identification. I have a lot of bruises. A lot of scars. I have compromised my integrity. I have been immersed in reality. The reality that courtship is easy and must be obtained instantly. I lost my principles. That is why I’ve been through a lot. I am sorry if I had to do that. But all of it is in the past.

I still believe that one day, you would courageously burst your feelings out. Not just to me, but to my family. You will open your heart to my dad with bravery. You will tell him how much you love me and how willing you are to have me. You won’t confess in a way that I would fall for you immediately, but you would take all the risks to court me properly. You won’t show sweet gestures and treat me as your own. You would take things slow and have self-control. You won’t give much attention until it turns out to be affection. You won’t play safe and constantly deny what you truly feel for me. You won’t promise anything that would make me expect, but you’ll treat me with honesty and respect. You would faithfully stick to the right process, even before you profess.

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Stay single until you meet a person who is sure of you and never makes you doubt how he/she feels. The one who is certain of you and his/her career and a future he/she wants you a part of.

Stay single until you find someone who can match your loyalty. Stay single until you find someone who can reciprocate your effort. Stay single until you find someone who can give back the same amount of attention you put out. Stay single until you find someone who can make the same amount of time you share. Stay single until you find someone who provides the same level of honesty you exploit. Stay single until you find someone who meets all of your expectations as clearly as you’ve set them.