Masturbation as such is not a problem, the real drawback lies in the excess of this which can bring many consequences, mostly negative as generally occurs with additions, in this chapter I will talk about the most common problems, the most serious and those that more can affect daily life and our health, which can be caused by abusing straw.
-Antisocial, a fap addict could stop interacting with others: Many people who already have difficulties to socialize, add the adversities of the addiction to masturbation, since there is a relationship between loneliness and fap, and that is that although loneliness can lead to fap, being addicted to Handjob, no matter how sociable the person is, could lead them to withdraw from others, someone who does not socialize increases their chances of not having a partner and it becomes difficult for them to discharge their sexual desire, with which they use masturbation and is accompanied by loneliness generate an addiction; Jerking off could also make you feel that you don't need a partner if you can already indulge yourself, if the person is painful or prefers to spend time alone more and more, in order to masturbate it generates a bit of isolation with which comes loneliness and difficulties in socializing .
The person could find in the fap a refuge to their need to interact with others, and they find satisfaction in deceiving themselves because their mind makes them believe that they are with many sexual partners, when in reality they spend locked up in their houses deprived of freedom, some fleeing from a world in which they progressively believe that everything there is is dangerous or a threat to them, that is having a very small comfort zone and having many layers of protection which isolate it from a world where it has very real possibilities of find friends, partner and very good experiences. The fact of constantly thinking about sex can make the person avoid their responsibilities or that when they are in a family reunion, party or social celebration, they look for excuses to isolate themselves and go to masturbate;
-believe that the real world is like porn.
The faithful companion of masturbation is pornography, when someone has spent a lot of time watching this type of content and has not had real experiences of what human sexuality is, they could make the mistake of believing that a true sexual relationship is as shown in pornography; Let me tell you that the real world is not like that, as a first point normally in pornography people have super easy sex, in the real world it is not as fast or as easy as watching pornographic content does, if it is true that some people They are very hot and predisposed to sex, but this does not mean that they will surrender five minutes after meeting you, nor does it mean that they will be with you, if they simply do not like you they will not.
Some people have a partner and choose only to be with her, they feel complete with her and sometimes they have family, you may attract them sexually, but that does not guarantee that they will sleep with you, another deception is that if another person agrees to have sex, it does not guarantee that You will have the right to do everything you want, not all people like anal, oral or blows sex as seen in porn or even if they like it, they do not do it with everyone. Pornography that is consumed for satisfaction alone is generally not designed to teach sexuality, so it is not advisable to take it as a teacher, that is what documentaries, guides, tantric sex and pornography intended for the sexual satisfaction of the couple are for.
Believing that the real world is like porn is a great lack of maturity, you cannot ignore the nature of love, caresses and good wishes; because if we let ourselves be carried away by the savagery that is shown, we could end up feeling a great emptiness or hurting another person, the biggest trap of this deception is that it invites you to select the pornographic content you want to see, but in the real world you do not always have what you want, bodies are not always perfect, people do not always have the personality that attracts you, and the mind gets used to it badly, making you believe that you will always find what gives you the most pleasure; it is truly a great fortune that lovemaking is more fulfilling than pornographic sex.
-It becomes more difficult to find a partner
This is because the mind unfortunately rewards us for being in our comfort zone, that is why it keeps us at home where we are kings, where we are not in danger, where everything is fine, everything is known and controlled, where we can continue to believe. that we are all gallants with girls, that your brain believes what we see on a screen real, fills us with rewards by staying at home, in not approaching the girls we like, testosterone also decreases, which makes us more introverted , antisocial, and it takes away our energy, while making us more insecure, the sum of all this makes it more difficult to find a partner, in addition to making us less attractive and influential; if maybe you have already had luck with the girls, usually it will be because they have looked for you because something attracted them,
-Have a partner and prefer to jerk off to be with her
Perhaps it will be one of the strangest and most difficult cases to believe, but it is an extreme fact that rarely occurs in addicts to masturbation, but because it is one of the most serious events I am obliged to mention it, in this type of case the person expects to be alone to jerk off without their partner noticing, the reason for this is that they are so used to fapping that simply having a relationship with their partner does not satisfy them, they usually hide because they are ashamed to be discovered by their partner and not to have problems with it; As I mentioned before, masturbation is not a bad thing, you can even use it as a couple, it is fun and it can bring variety to the relationship, but remember masturbation should never be the basis of your relationships.
-Every time you need more stimuli to obtain pleasure (You get used to it and you get bored than normal).
This problem was considered one of the most important and is that because it seems so simple it is in which many are careless and lower their guard without knowing that they could end up with large sexual deviations, most people do not settle for a simple masturbation, They rely on pornographic content, a content of which if you do not control yourself he will dominate you, you may like a type or a category of porn, take a few seconds to ask yourself how you got to it; Sometimes the world of pornography is entered smoothly by consuming content from categories ... let's say normal, but over time many people end up seeing things that are stronger and stronger, they still like this new content more and more, and with what they already started are not satisfied, this creates a vicious circle with which they need more and more variety and intensity,
So much masturbation with extreme pornography could make a normal sexual relationship look boring, the mind of the extreme addict could see it as something routine, he would even be insensitive to "normal" pornography and he will remember that he feels more stimulated with more exaggerated things than if he gets with it. strong or deviant porn; This causes that obtaining sexual satisfaction is increasingly difficult, which hinders relationships with a couple, you could even develop very extreme tastes that make it difficult for you to find a partner who wants to satisfy you.
-Develop more and more extreme, dangerous and illegal tastes.
Due to the need for new stimuli that are stronger, normal sex can stop producing satisfaction, with which immoral tastes can develop, as an extreme example the person could enter porn by watching couples with certain physical characteristics that attract them, which It is soft, then it will get used to it, it will become monotonous and it could advance to something that generates stronger emotions, in that search for more and more emotions....
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-Approach to homosexuality.
-Cocktail of hormones, energy, addiction to these substances:
- Erectile Disfunction:
-Orgasmic dysfunction:
-Premature ejaculation:
-Depression
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