We are surrounded by different people and circumstances.
Now the question is, what impact does it have on us...is it positive or negative?.
Speaking of negativity,is it what we as individuals see as negative, because of the way we were brought up or it being actually negative?... because the truth is most times what we see as being negative is either through our religious beliefs or what society deems as negative.
Which brings us to the fact that different people surrounded by the same set of people or circumstances come out differently because of its impacts on each individual...but what gives the right answer isn't the NOW,but where we'll all be at the END...