Love is Blindness-why we do the things we do

People are strange

Trying to sum someone up, especially a total stranger, is no walk in the park. Its seriously hard work, and those of us afflicted by f**king romanticism or idealism, looking at situations from a completely different perspective, and not always the right one, its almost impossible

Under these rules, even though weve done something wrong, been caught stealing with our hands in the cookie jar, so f**king what, were encouraged to make lame arsed excuses for ourselves. Poor little pumpkin, who knows why we did it, maybe we were scared or under pressure, maybe we were trying to do or say something else? Sweet little things, were sure that under all that agro, were really feel shameful and abashed. We didnt mean to do it, did we; we all know everyones good and kind.

Give us a f**king break! Romantics, tree huggers and people who live in caves, simply refuse to accept that sometimes, probably more often than not, people do bad shit on purpose.

To them, unacceptable behaviour from us must be the result of us having had our feelings hurt, nothing to do with us personally, its not our fault. If we get the urge to shout out at the world, curse out aloud, its because no one could be f**king bothered to listen to us. When we take the piss out of or abuse someone, its only because it happened to us too.

Shouldnt that be a good f**king reason not to do it? The afore mentioned (the romantics, tree huggers and cave dwellers) claim that theyre not denying responsibility for our actions but that we just cant help ourselves, its all about our past.

For Christs sake, grow up and take it on the chin. Its time to put our big boy pants on.

Right place, wrong time

The cynic in us, believes that people get what they deserve. Karma, fate, whatever but something along those lines. Idealists, on the other hand, believe in bad luck, that someone, no matter how good they are, can still fail miserably, be subjected to the worst kind of luck. Its got f**k all to do with anything other than the fact that shit happens, even to the most innocent and harmless.

This is no moral universe. We dont get f**king brownie points for what we did or didnt do. Failure or just plain down, good old fashioned bad luck, isnt exclusively reserved for the rotten and greedy, it can happen to f**king anyone.

Cynics get this shit, they take it in their stride, while idealists insist on rationalising about everything. Idealists stay calm when were being f**king wastes of time and space.

We lose our shit, make crazy accusations, or come out with our nasty f**king remarks and they look for reasonable explanations, always remembering our better moments. They know and understand that we can lose it when were upset or angry, but they try not adding wood to the fire by getting all f**king self-righteous on our arse. If we punch the wall or choose to voice our opinion, were probably a little bit frustrated, or maybe were just being overly f**king enthusiastic.

This should be met with understanding, not annoyance. Are you f**king shitting us? According to most of them (the soft cocks, anyway) we all have strengths and weaknesses, good points, and bad points, so when they look at us closely, they know that almost everything bad can be turned into something good.

These f**king do-gooders, dig real deep to find strengths in us that outshine our weaknesses. It would be easier for them to be picky and headstrong and to forget all the good things about us. Theyre so used to us f**king things up, that they overlook our good points anyway.

If we truly believe that we have no weaknesses or faults, then were full of f**king shit and should seriously consider running headfirst into the nearest wall