Definition Alexigender is a neurogender defined as "a term for when you are unable to describe your gender/orientation due to neurodivergency - you cannot put it into words. You may have a vague idea of what your gender/orientation is or could be; if so it can be used as alexigenderqueer or alexipan, for example. Alexigender/alexi- can be used in combination with another identity, or it can be a stand-alone. Based off alexithymia, a condition/symptom where a person has difficulty describing their emotions.Only to be used by people who have alexithymia, which may be part of another disorder such as autism, schizo-spectrum disorders, or borderline personality disorder. See also these similar genders, Gendervauge, & Nesciogender."
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Alexigenderqueer
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Colour meanings: The blues represent alexithymia and the inability to describe the gender/orientation; the black stripe represents the alexithymia "obscuring" or "hiding" your actual gender/orientation from you; the pinks are the inverse of the blues and represent your actual gender/orientation.
Coining -Alexigender was coined by tumblr user xeno-aligned on their sideblog, neurogender