Mjolo without communication is like a movie with no sounds or a classroom when the teacher leaves. Its a mess.You and your partner should always be on the same page or it could result to some unnecessary arguments,catching hands or a breakup.
Some people really appreciate constant reassurance. They want to be told ,"the are loved,they're the only one…etc."
And some people just don't want to hear such things constantly.
So it is really advised to always communicate and understand they type of person you a dating.
There are four types of communication:
☞Verbal communication
☞Nonverbal communication
☞Written communication
☞Visual communication
Each type of communication offers its own advantages in mjolo. As you develop your communication skills, you’ll naturally learn which types of communication is best for your relationship.
Each type of communication is key and can work hand in hand
For example, verbal and nonverbal communication. When you speak you also send messages with the way you move your body and facial expression
If your communication skills are bad, improve them and if you can't then maybe mjolo just isn't for you
Lifestyle website YourTango.com polled 100 mental health professionals and found that communication problems was cited as the most common factor that leads to divorce (65 percent), followed by couples' inability to resolve conflict (43 percent)in Nov. 20, 2013
Learn to resolve arguments without getting physical or saying things you would regret.
When you find yourself in a situation where your partner is angry and is releasing all their stress on you it is better to keep quiet and address the situation once they're more calm. A listener always learns more than the one who is constantly talking. Its hard to keep quiet while someone is saying hurtful things to you but it can help if you are a person who doesn't like arguing.
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Life Within Mjolo
RandomThis is a book based on basic situations or scenarios that take place in relationships. It highlights both pros and cons of mjolo and leave the reader to decide which way they'd choose.
