People usually enter mjolo with the craziest expectations but its normal thoIn a "good" relationship people expect to be treated with love and be shown loyalty.
It's a give take really. Some people have really high expectations and demand way too much. Such people are what we call problems.When you are in a relationship that demands more than you can offer,leave or BATLOA HURDA.
If this still doesn't make sense here's a practical example:A school boy living in the bundus got into a relationship. Two months down the line his girlfriend starts coming up with these outrageous ideas, she now expects him to get a car and drive out of the bundus so that they can meet John Cena and after that she suggests they should birds big enough for them to fly on. The boy was blinded by the powers of mjolo he believed he could do it.So the school boy tried all he could and failed, she left him and he got depressed. The end.
⟦noun: bundu
Plural: bundus
(in South Africa and Zimbabwe) the wilds; a distant or wilderness region.known to be far from cities and townships.Origin-probably from Shona bundo ‘grasslands⟧
Okay that may have been a exaggerated example but you get where I'm going with this right? The boy had to try and meet these expectations not only because his was a fool but also because he knew she would leave if he didn't.
If the bar is too high to reach, leave.
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Life Within Mjolo
AcakThis is a book based on basic situations or scenarios that take place in relationships. It highlights both pros and cons of mjolo and leave the reader to decide which way they'd choose.