Of course they will say "come on girl, just move on", they can say "just forget about them, move on" Move on is one way to let go and forget everything that make you felt disappointed, felt hatred,felt sad, felt useless, felt down, heart broken. For me, Of course I will move on but I will let my heart takes its time, do not rush to move on. This is reminders for it to not repeat its carelessly, its mistakes. Mistakes that give 100% hopes for him, mistakes that you being too positive about him, mistakes that you wait for him for few years. End up he was cheated, ungrateful with what he has before, forget that he is the one told to wait for him before. hmm, its too hurt, its takes time but its okay. I know I'm deserve better soon. Dear self, I know its to hard to move on, but we need to do this to continues our life, our better life. * sorry for my terrible english