•|Read Can I Hold You Again before reading this|• Love, where the past will affect the present and future. She is afraid to fall in love completely because what happened to her mother might happen to her. His father's promise was not fulfilled, which caused them to become a broken family. Rebuilding a broken family is no longer possible because many can be hurt. So for her "Love is choice, but hurt is the truth" so she prefers to be prepared for whatever happens to her. Because commitment is the pain of sneaking.