If you haven't noticed on social media or anywhere in our patriarchal society. homophobic is actually linked to deep misogyny because once a man stops fitting into your ideal image of masculinity, the first insult u throw at them is "gay" or the f word ( as if that's a bad thing!) and how being feminine or being perceived as a woman while being a man is deeply humiliating. Feminine≠ weak, vulnerable or the stereotype you put inside that head of yours.