@SunshineGodsey You are what you want to be. If you don't want to identified as female or male, you don't have to be. Just let everyone know that you are neither male nor female, and that you prefer to be called something else. You don't have to be an 'it' but when people talk about you they could say 'they'. As long as you tell them. If you know that you are not a boy or a girl, that is perfectly fine. Just let everyone know what you are and what you aren't. Like I said, you don't have to be identified as female or male. You can be identified as you. People can say 'they' just as easily as they say 'she' or 'her'. Plus, anyone could just call you by your name. The main thing that I'm trying to say is: You don't have to be a 'girl' or 'boy' if you know that that is not what you are. You can be an 'it' although I would prefer To not use that. I would prefer to say 'they' than it. That makes you sound like object. Which you are not. You are a human being, who doesn't want to be identified as a specific gender. And you don't have to be.
Sorry if this didn't help you. I tried. But do tell me if you have anything else to say.
~Insanity ♡
