Sometimes it's not about winning or losing but doing what is right for yourself.
Even when the mind doesn't support you, he who can stand to himself and do right is already there where everything is for him.  
We may stand different but all our souls are interlinked. So we have to strive to be kinder as this world doesn't need any more smart people but people who can show kindness. love to all..... that's all about me....!!!