@naughtymango yeah i think so , And about the forgiving thing you said, people can't even accept let alone forgive , i guess its just the plain side of life, we can't ever escape it, but that doesn't mean everyone hates you for who you are , and that doesn't mean you can't enjoy the bright side of life , i think its given that life has a dark and bright side and the only thing we can do is relish on the side we want to be at. But again, that doesn't mean those criticisms doesn't hurt ... Because it does . Xx :))