To be misunderstood is hard especially when you are an understanding person.
Lately, I've noticed how my close friends/workmates treat me differently. One day, one of my closest started to ignore me. Thinking that she was just not in the mood to talk to anyone that day, I let her be. The next day, I received the same treatment from her again but I tried to talk to her and ask her if she was alright. She said she was in a high tone, I backed off.
Later that day, I noticed how she was normal towards our other friends but not with me so I tried to talk to her normally as well. I coaxed her but she remained distant. Three days passed and her attitude towards me continued to be different. So I asked our friends.
"Is she mad at me? Did she mention anything about me doing anything wrong to her? Why is she being distant from me?"
They said that she was just not feeling her best the past few days and that she also tends to ignore them sometimes. Sometimes. But why is she ignoring me the whole day for three days straight?
They were going out, inviting each other to hang out without me. She was still like that towards me even though how hard I tried to coax her. One day, I just got tired.
As far as I know, I never did anything wrong to her. What made her treat me differently from the others?
Why are they not inviting me over?
Why do I feel like they're drifting away from me?
Why do I feel like they don't want to be friends with me anymore?
What did I ever do wrong?