I am back and sorry for the absemce.  Our computer broke down and then I suffered quite a bit of loss through out those years my dad, cousins, brother in law, uncles grandparents and recently my mom.  My mental health suffered and was back in therapy then in 2015 I faced some major medical issues with breast cancer ending in bilateral mastectomy and months of chemo and just recently a heart attack.  I am now almost 58 and my sons are now 19 and 13.  I just recently got my youngest back home with me.  I have missed writing and reading and I am now in middle of reworking my story.  This wouldn't be possible without a dear friend who just bought me a lap top and l look forward to trying to catch up with you all again.  Again I am very sorry for the long absence.