As the one holding this community together, I want to pause and speak to you all—not just as members, but as individuals who bring your energy, time, creativity, and presence here. I want to ask you from the bottom of my heart: how do you truly feel being part of this space? Do you ever feel pressured—whether it's to participate, to always be active, to comment, support, or give back in ways that might feel like expectations rather than choice? Have you ever felt like you’re being asked for too much, or like there are unspoken demands in order to stay seen or valued here?
If so, I genuinely want to hear about it. This space was never meant to feel like a job, a competition, or a performance. It was meant to be a haven—for writers, readers, creators, and quiet observers alike. A place to express, to breathe, to connect, and to feel supported. You’re not here to owe us anything, and your presence—no matter how loud or silent—is appreciated.
But now I want to ask you: do you feel comfortable here? Do you feel safe, seen, and respected? Or do you sometimes feel like your worth is being measured by how much you do or give? Please be honest. This is your space too, and your voice matters—not just when you're contributing, but always. If there’s anything that has ever made you feel overwhelmed, underappreciated, or unsure of your place here, I want to know—so we can grow, heal, and improve together.
