by the way (disclaimer) I usually update "First For Everything" at night because that's when I find time to do it and most of the time I have to admit I'm like have asleep, so please criticize if you're like "wait what?" or just all around like okay this really sucks sort of thing or "I don't see where this is going, I'm confused" something like that. I really do love it when people stay on top of me, sounds wrong, but true and will help in the long run eep!