Frick_Gender

I think I might just abandon this account. I’ve had a terrible time here, tbh most of my “bad things that have happened to me as a writer” stories happened to me on this account. I’m still going to continue writing, but it won’t be on this account or on this website. I’m not sure yet, but I don’t like it here. Every time I get a notification that someone commented I dread it because in the past people have commented so many awful things. So I’m just not having fun here. I’m not sure yet if I’ll delete the whole account, take down the book, or just leave it all up yet.

oalli7

@Frick_Gender please don't take down the books, I still enjoy them very much
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Frick_Gender

I think I might just abandon this account. I’ve had a terrible time here, tbh most of my “bad things that have happened to me as a writer” stories happened to me on this account. I’m still going to continue writing, but it won’t be on this account or on this website. I’m not sure yet, but I don’t like it here. Every time I get a notification that someone commented I dread it because in the past people have commented so many awful things. So I’m just not having fun here. I’m not sure yet if I’ll delete the whole account, take down the book, or just leave it all up yet.

oalli7

@Frick_Gender please don't take down the books, I still enjoy them very much
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Frick_Gender

My boyfriend is a trans man and he’s trying to get top surgery but he doesn’t know if he’ll be able to get keyhole or double incision, but all the information is using bra cup size. The downside of that is that he started transitioning when he was young, so he knows nothing about cup sizes, and I know nothing about cup sizes. No one we know understand cup sizes. So that’s fun. Why does all the information about trans masc/trans androgynous have to use cup sizes? 

Frick_Gender

I’m starting to get some symptoms of COVID so that’s fun.

Cookiekid3112

@Frick_Gender I´m glad that your feeling better! I´m also assuming you got your account back.... I might be wrong tho lol
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Frick_Gender

@Cookiekid3112 I’m better now, thankfully it was just a mild case, but it was most certainly COVID. 
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Cookiekid3112

@Frick_Gender oh no... I hope you do start to feel better, that sucks that they aren´t being safe
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Frick_Gender

Hey everyone, I know that some people who follow me fall under the trans umbrella and recently a transphobe put a message on my board, so I wanted to warn all of you to mute them. If you’re more sensitive, please mute them and don’t look at what they post. But if you are mentally able to, please report them for harassment of trans, non-binary, genderfluid, etc. individuals. They’re @kklunnybunny and they’re a transphobe. Just mute and report them.

Frick_Gender

Dysphoria //
          
          Just learned how they can tell your birth sex by how your pelvis is shaped. Guess I gotta be dysphoric about my pelvis bone now. /hj

Frick_Gender

Now I want to cry from happiness because I told my teacher how the language made me feel and now she’s going to change the language in the work so that there’s a section explaining the difference between sex vs gender and the language will be more inclusive :,)
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Frick_Gender

It’s so painful as a trans person( who has known that they were trans from a young age but wasn’t allowed to transition due to transphobia)  to have to learn all about how “This is what happened in puberty, it’s impossible to reverse it and not matter what you do this will always tell people your birth sex.”
            Normally I really like my human anatomy class because the teacher actually calls me by the right pronouns but sometimes she has to teach stuff in the binary way(I live in a conservative town so it’s required, she wouldn’t do it if she could). So sometimes I just have to suffer.
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Frick_Gender

Oops not a /hj anymore i started to tear up from dysphoria. So many questions on this assignment is “how do we know if it’s girl or boy skeleton?” And my enby ass is sitting here and suffering.
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Frick_Gender

I just had a horrible idea. Do you think there’s a relationship with at least one trans person(who’s a sub) where their dom degrades them by calling them a trender? It probably exists in fiction, because if I’ve thought of that someone else probably has and then actually wrote it. But, does anyone /actually/ have that relationship dynamic?

Frick_Gender

I hate how people who know my correct pronouns loudly misgender me when I’m not in the room, but I still can hear them. Like no effort whatsoever. They don’t even put the effort in while in front of me. Can they just say they’re transphobic and go? I’ve been out to them for years now. There’s no excuse.

Frick_Gender

I was told (by a transphobe) that when I go to college dorms I won’t be allowed to use the dorms/bathrooms of my choice, meanwhile I’m looking at college websites which are saying the opposite. So real great way to tell me that I’m not valid and make me dysphoric over nothing.