@GhettoTherapist I'll be honest, that was a bit difficult to understand. But I think I got it in the end.
All I'll say is this: Racism and misogyny don't have to be openly hateful to be those things. In the same vein, homophobia does not have to be blatant and hateful to be homophobia. It doesn't matter what the reason for it is or what shape it takes. It doesn't change the fact that it's unwarranted prejudice against a minority group.
And don't get me wrong. Many people, including queer people, have internalized homophobia. That doesn't mean they're horrendous people. But a person who is subconsciously prejudiced but open to improving is much better than someone that hugs their prejudice tightly to their chest.
Anyway, I shouldn't have interupted your feed. I thought you might be inactive and was just trying to explain something to the other user. My apologies.