H_bklover

Has anyone here read bazooka’s books? I can’t seem to finish the first one. 

H_bklover

Can anyone suggest me books with green flag and adorable male mc’s?

H_bklover

@Qwjdhdjjdjdjdjdj very late reply but thank you sooo much, I’ll definitely check it out when I’ll have the time. <3
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confused__hooman

@Qwjdhdjjdjdjdjdj you can try this books , the ml's are green forests
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H_bklover

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So, I was on Reddit and was browsing through some subs when I came across a subreddit called r/pornismisogyny. The most recent post (which someone posted like 22 mins ago) was : 
          
          “The way y'all have turned vanilla into an insult and hypersexualized underaged girls to the point that they feel its compulsory to enjoy men beating the shit out them in bed to not be viewed as a prude and be found desirable.” 
          
          Well this actually made me stop and ponder…on one hand I’d say I (somewhat) agree. Some who are into vanilla are often called prude & what not and for them to gain validation from their partner, they’re subjected to dipping their toes in that which does not align to their belief. 
          
           But on the other hand, if someone genuinely IS into it, then that’d be their own choice, no? Because for one, there is / should be consent between the two partners and if they both consented to bdsm activities - then that would be on them for knowing/testing their limits. 
          
          At the end of the day, both individuals (the one who’s into vanilla as well as the one who’s into bdsm) are shamed for their choices. Nobody’s winning.
          
          I scrolled down the sub and there are some posts I agree with. Bc yes porn is inherently harmful. Be it mentally, physically or emotionally. Let’s not forget the amount of r*pe videos there are among the various sites on the web. plus It literally destroys some marriages. and not to mention the unrealistic perception of sex. & it’s of no surprise that it’s mostly children who are the most vulnerable to getting exposed to such content. Like let kids be kids. 
          
          Yeah I just wanted to rant. and somehow, it became a little bit long. 

H_bklover

Has anyone here read haunting Adeline? or the author’s other books bc back when I read it i was in a dark place—I don’t remember much but I just went with the flow & the characters. what i didn’t realise up until now just how horrible zade was. & the fact that he’s a r*pist. much like her other book with her other mmc named Enzo or something like that who was btw much worse than zade. 
          
          Back then I wasn’t mature enough to understand the severity of the issue but now when I really think of it, the author tried to categorize & romanticise r*pe under the name of CNC which was btw very inaccurately described in the book. I don’t know what I was thinking when I read this book. & her other book too. 

H_bklover

@bllalisa it really was. Bc as someone who knows about CNC this was not CNC.  let’s also not forget the belt scene. There’s her other book “does it hurt,” where the mmc does something like that or imo, it was much worse. Dark romance shouldn’t be categorized under the name of SA done by the characters themselves. or toxic relationships. that is NOT what dark romance is. I’m gonna need healthy dark romance books .
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bllalisa

@H_bklover I tried reading Haunting Adeline. It was my friend's. I wanted to see what the hype was about. The famous gun scene was disappointing. It was sexual assault. I stopped reading after that. No sane adult reads and praises such things. It wasnt CNC at all. It was assault. Corn addiction in disguise smh. If girls are supporting such things how can one blame just boys?
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H_bklover

Anyone still active on here?

LostPages17

@H_bklover hii
            nice to finally talk to someone on here
            this is the first time i'm interacting with someone on wattpad despite being active since almost 5 years
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H_bklover

Ain’t no way someone who doesn’t know how abuse works clearly stated in a comment section which I refuted by the way said, “I feel sad for you, you must be lonely,” ?? aren’t you the one who thought everything is sunshine and rainbow in a victim’s world and how it must be easy for them to come forward & tell someone they’re being abused? even to their closest ones? news flash: no no it’s not easy at all. do these people know the fear abuser instill in victims? why is it always people (who’s got 0 knowledge about this) seem to run their mouth the most? it makes them look stupid.

LostPages17

@H_bklover yess exactly. its difficult to talk abt it because you always have the fear of being seen as weak or them not believing you or them saying that it is nothing, it's just playing, like what
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H_bklover

@LostPages17 exactly. Like people don’t know how difficult it is for them & what they’ve gone through. Like it’s absolutely very difficult to tell people the abuse you’ve been through.  because there’s always the chance that others won’t believe them. 
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LostPages17

@H_bklover if it isn't even easy to say i love you why do people assume its easy to say that something wrong is going on. i know not a great analogy but like its the victims choice and their story. butting your nose in others business is just rude even if you think you're helping them.
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H_bklover

Hii. does anyone here have ocd? If so, how do y’all deal with the intrusive thoughts and images?

s0rrey999

I just don’t, it’s probably not healthy but I allow all my thoughts to past and give in to my tendencies. When they’re gone however I reflect and write down everything i’ve felt and thought of so the next time it happens i’ll be more self aware in a way… everyone is different tho ml
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