H_bklover

Btw, any kdrama fans here? :>

H_bklover

None of my friends are single. Genuinely, where are y’all finding these men? I think I’ll surprise myself the day i fall in love. & For my girlies reading this, may y’all love last both in this world & the next. <3

H_bklover

Y’all does the phrase “i thought of you while sleeping with her,” make some swoon? bc why are we writing this in books? No genuinely, um, poor women. this isn’t cute. wdym, “i was in love with you the whole time i was sleeping with her,” ???? Get outta here.
          
          

H_bklover

@SafeSarah fr. Wdym you like me BUT you’ll hook up with others? Also wdym she has to be a virgin but the man can sleep with the whole town? I’m ngl, this seems lowkey misogynistic. & sexist. & yes it’s everywhere. It’s hard to find books where they don’t sleep around after meeting the FL, please. & WHY are we writing full on smut with OW? I don’t need to see that. most often, it’s always the ml & the OW. very very rarely you’ll see scenes like this with the FL & other man. Like, either you make both of them virgins or both of them non-virgins.
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SafeSarah

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@H_bklover 
            
            Ikr it's genuinely so gross and not even a good excuse. It's just ewww.
            
            And another thing is when he meets her and starts falling for her but is still hooking up with other chicks while she waits around for him to get his head out his ass. He's a manwhore while she's a virgin or celibate. This is literally EVERYWHERE! Second chance romance? He's manwhoreing around and she's celibate. Arranged marriage? Same shit. Fake dating? Same shit.
            
            It never fails to piss me off and make me DNF a book SO FAST ugh
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H_bklover

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I’m not even ashamed when I say someone ( if I could, I actually would) needs to hire a sniper to finish off the man who married one of my aunts. 18 years of horror y’all. to start off, he’s a pedophile, a rapist, a domestic abusive bastard & a serial cheater. Tried to kill his own wife & children. The day that mf actually dies is the day I’ll throw a party. 

nomvelo_gurrr

@H_bklover  Ew, I hope God frees and heals your aunt, bro. No woman or anyone in general deserves to have someone like that in their life. The nerve of that psychopathiv accidentally swam successfully ding dong sperm to cheat on top of being by far the shittiest person ever. Pedophile? Rapist? Abusive? When last did an actual person make me as angry as that orange pig. I hope he gets what he deserves. 
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H_bklover

Unfortunately (fortunately) I’ll always be attracted to men who know how to use proper punctuations, language structure (ik ik), are older than me (not my much ofc), who wear glasses (that is actually my weakness) and they’re smart. book smart & emotionally intelligent. & those who are gentle both with their actions & words. 
          
          sigh.

H_bklover

@nomvelo_gurrr No you’re not a pick me. Women deserve the best out there. If there is ofc. (My dad is one of them) . Yes, if you’re just a pretty face without a brain, then like, i won’t be attracted. Like I need that emotional connection. I need someone with whom I can have very deep & intelligent conversations with. 
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nomvelo_gurrr

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@H_bklover I feel like a pick me now for agreeing with you for the second time because intelligence can make even the most whatever person attractive. And honestly, I think it's one of the reasons why I always tell people that sometimes a person will be attractive but I won't be attracted, it's because they are hot boys without brains. If I want to stand up and walk away from how dumb a guy talk, it just doesn't work. Sometimes not dumb but just those "you, that's crazy" or "damn" or "yeah" or "fr type shi" talkers. Not juice to add whatsoever
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H_bklover

@nomvelo_gurrr also, gimme me a man who CAN SPEAK. Intelligence is attractive.
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