HereComesDaSun22

@HereComesDaSun22 | Considering the mums I've seen online, I think I'd rather die than have to make one.
            
            I hope they do to, it's just that October is extremely busy when it comes to college applications and stuff and the stress might get to their heads. Then again, it's one day and I'm also asking them in advance

@AnikaSN1098 My mom will be at hoco as a chaperone, so I’m definitely going. She also keeps trying to get me to make my person a mum. No thank you. A corsage is already tricky enough. 
            
            I hope your parents say yes. You should be able to enjoy your senior year to your fullest before going off to college 

@HereComesDaSun22 | I'm sure it looks great regardless, I do feel you on the pre-hoco jitters though. I still have to ask my parents if I can go, and despite having a few weeks, I don't want to procrastinate on asking them for too long. Plus I feel like if I don't confirm whether I'm going or not soon, my date will assume I'm not going. Then again, I did say that I would ask 'soon' without giving a specific date, so they probably won't.

@XelumaOfTheSun It’s like they’re going “See this guy? This guy is evil! He wants to improve people’s lives! How horrible! He can never be elected, lest he spreads such terrible ideas like you should be able to afford life saving medication!”

@AnikaSN1098 It’s so hard to imagine that there’s actual people out there that agree with the ads. What do you mean you like the guy saying human rights are evil and destroying your life? 

@HereComesDaSun22 I remember seeing that last one you mentioned and was like “Whoa, they support all of that stuff? Are you sure you’re trying to get me to NOT vote for them?”

@HereComesDaSun22 | Ooooh, exciting, hope it goes well! They better have the best hoco proposal ever for you

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            Thank you! It is, we've introduced him to the fact that poly relationships exist, but the matter of his partner actually being in one is still up in the air. It is really fun, between the three of us I'm probably the one with the most expertise (which is furthered by the fact that his partner themself actually didn't know that you could have a poly relationship where person A is dating both B and C but person B is only dating A and C is only dating A, I think it's called a V relationship but I could be wrong), so I'd probably be doing most of the educating. It's always fun informing people about the wonders of the many queer spectrums out there (including arospec, his partner and I are both arospec with them being completely aro, so it'd be kind of odd if we didn't educate him about it, he's a fast learner though so it wasn't hard).

@AnikaSN1098 This conversation was sponsored by Hypothetically Inc. But seriously, I hope it works out for y’all! A lack of education is a very easy and sometimes fun fix. He seems like a nice guy 

@HereComesDaSun22 | Yayyyy! Funny enough my friend also said they'd hypothetically be cool with being in a qpr when I asked, but we never really talked about it since, and the main problem is that despite both of us being polyspec and them being okay with being with someone else despite already having a boyfriend, we're not entirely sure if he'd be okay with it. Not that he isn't supportive, he's a good friend of mine and very sweet, it's just that he's not very educated. We'd probably have to pitch it to him first, but I'll probably ask my friend during homecoming if they would even want to be in a qpr not hypothetically in the first place.
            
            Huh, that's interesting, ngl my head can't really wrap around that either.

@HereComesDaSun22 ohhhhhh ok

@DaRedGod It’s like a nickname right now, kinda like how some people I know prefer to go by their middle name for one reason or another (first name is too hard to pronounce, it’s extremely common, or they just like their middle name better). Just because Alexander wants to go by Alex doesn’t mean they have to get it legally changed on all documents 

@HereComesDaSun22 isn't changing your legal name extremely complicated 

@AnikaSN1098 Right? It was so adorable 

@HereComesDaSun22 | That sounds like something I would definitely forget I did, so I don't blame them

@HereComesDaSun22 hope you feel better! 

@AnikaSN1098 I think my mom would kill me if I didn’t recover so fast. I was honestly shocked she let me skip school today to recover despite the fact I had two tests today that already got pushed back because school got canceled because of a storm a few days ago. Good news though, I should be well enough to work the football game tomorrow! Usually I’d be upset I have to do it, but it’s against a school I still have friends at, so I’ve been looking forward to it

@HereComesDaSun22 | Wow, it takes me several days to get to that point of recovery, your body’s awesome
            
            Hope you feel even better soon though!

@HereComesDaSun22 | Yay! Hope you guys have fun!

Update: They texted me back and now we’re going bowling! I’m very excited, I can’t wait till Sunday!

@HereComesDaSun22 | That's nice, I'm glad you found one! I tend to be one of the oddities who rarely look okay in items grabbed off the rack, mostly because my mom ends up doing most of the shopping and tends to just look for things that fit my size rather than things that look good. As soon as I turn 18 and I'm not broke, I'm getting a shit ton of cooler clothes
            
            It's not standardized at all yeah, which is why it's even less likely that I'll be able to execute the jumper suit-jacket plan when it comes to asking my mom. Dresses would probably be even more annoying though, so there's that I guess

@AnikaSN1098 I got a blazer. I was going to be like “oh no, all the blazers have half sleeves or they’re bunched up really weirdly, guess I’ll have to go with the suit jacket” but then I found one that actually looks good and caved because I got scared that the men’s jacket wouldn’t drape correctly due to my chest. It was probably a mistake to look up online if the average woman could wear a jacket off the rack and still have it look okay
            
            My mom’s solution for the jumper size was to look at the sizes for the dresses I’ve bought in the past year. Apparently one is an extra large while the other is a medium. They both fit me perfectly btw. I’m really starting to see what people mean when they say women’s sizing isn’t standardized in the least. 

@HereComesDaSun22 | You should be allowed to wear whatever you want, maybe just tell her that you like the way they look and that you want to wear one? Or you could also get a blazer if you’re okay with it and are willing to make that compromise.
            
            I have no idea, sizes are weird. This is why I never end up shopping for things.

@HereComesDaSun22 | I’m glad you like the dress! And also that your mom’s okay with the alternative. Hopefully shopping goes well! Assuming my mom lets me go, her main issue is usually that despite her wanting me to wear a dress, my legs are hairier than she’d like, and she doesn’t want my legs showing. Stockings or long socks are too much effort to get, and I doubt she’d let me wear a suit, so I might pitch the jumper suit jacket combo to her as well. I don’t mind wearing a dress, but in case she doesn’t let me without getting my legs shaved, her brain automatically thinks of dresses when it comes to literally anything that’s not school clothes or pajamas, so I’m not sure how open minded she’ll be. We’ll see how it goes I guess.

@AnikaSN1098 I tried on the dress last night and it looked great, but I felt like my shoulders looked really wide. I’m not sure if I’m imagining it or not, but the dress looks great otherwise. I’m not sure if I want to wear it or not. My mom is also pushing me to look for another dress instead of a jumper and jacket. She says she’s fine with it, but she wants me to look up dresses first so I’m sure. It’d be nice if I could buy the clothes to try on and then choose since I’m probably going to end up getting them off Amazon, but I don’t want to waste money in the event I like the dress better. 
            
            Yay, I’m so glad your friend asked you! I hope y’all have a lot of fun! 

@HereComesDaSun22 | Hah, well that's funny, as soon as I said that I might have the motivation to ask my friend to go with me, they literally just asked me if I want to go to hoco with them assuming that their partner isn't going (my friend is aro and polyspec and I'm also arospec and polyspec so if they went with me it wouldn't be awkward for their partner whatsoever)