Demi Lovato came out as non-binary and I'm proud of them, even if I don't really follow their endeavors. But, reading the things they said, it reminded me of how I figured out I was non-binary. You can live so much of your life feeling kind of okay about something, but knowing there are other options is so eye opening and freeing.
It really makes sense when you don't really understand yourself, too. You're so set in this one way of how you should be but getting options instead of two extremes and siding with the more comfortable one, you get to be more familiar with who you really are and I think that's great. When I get the choice in games or in books to choose my gender and non-binary isn't an option, I tend to go for male, just cause it feels more comfortable than picking female as an enby afab. But in the end, I still crave that freedom of being able to choose non-binary, you know?