Idkhowtostopwriting

Hello!
          	
          	I am going to ask a few questions and some may be a bit vulgar but I’ve always wondered how far I could go with my writing before making majority of my readers uncomfortable. So I would just like to get an understanding although I’m sure I won’t get many replies, it still helps to have even a few perspectives. So here we go:
          	
          	BDSM related:
          	Is pegging something you all would like to see or at least be okay with reading?
          	A full story with Dominant woman x Submissive man trope? (I tried testing the waters in Escort to gauge responses)
          	
          	Plot related:
          	Would we like an apocalyptic-style plot or is that too stressful? (I would really like to try my hand at darker plots but not if it’ll go nowhere)
          	What’s the furthest an age gap can be before you’re uncomfortable? And I don’t mean I’m considering a gap like 18 and 50, I’d never write something like that. I mean both mature adults at least 25.
          	

Idkhowtostopwriting

@Dilli913 I have a lot of man x man and woman x woman stories in my drafts but I’m experiencing writers block and sometimes get distracted and start on a completely new book lol but I promise I will publish more. Also I never plan on incorporating non-consenting sex, I also hate seeing that in stories. If it is in a book, it’s a characters backstory and not romanticized. Thank you. 
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Dilli913

Honestly, all of this depends on who you ask. I personally would love to see all of this, but others might disagree with me. And, for the age gap, it depends on what genre. If it's a supernatural x human book, then thousand/hundreds of year age gap are okay, AS LONG AS THEY HAVE THE SAME MATURITY. Like, 2500 year old vampire would be like a 25 year old. But, if its human and there is no supernatural ages, one being 25 and the other being 40 honestly makes me a bit uncomfortable, but I have extreme tolerances. I really don't care about it. I read the craziest things, nothing makes me uncomfortable anymore EXCEPT non-consenting sex. I hate nonconsent stuff. That's literally just rape. Hope this helps! ( Also, please write more male x male I like yaoi :3 )
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kokiisSouthAfrican

@Idkhowtostopwriting pegging is a definite no and the age gap thing as long as the fmc is over 18 than a 15-20 year age gap is fine, personally 
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Idkhowtostopwriting

Hello!
          
          I am going to ask a few questions and some may be a bit vulgar but I’ve always wondered how far I could go with my writing before making majority of my readers uncomfortable. So I would just like to get an understanding although I’m sure I won’t get many replies, it still helps to have even a few perspectives. So here we go:
          
          BDSM related:
          Is pegging something you all would like to see or at least be okay with reading?
          A full story with Dominant woman x Submissive man trope? (I tried testing the waters in Escort to gauge responses)
          
          Plot related:
          Would we like an apocalyptic-style plot or is that too stressful? (I would really like to try my hand at darker plots but not if it’ll go nowhere)
          What’s the furthest an age gap can be before you’re uncomfortable? And I don’t mean I’m considering a gap like 18 and 50, I’d never write something like that. I mean both mature adults at least 25.
          

Idkhowtostopwriting

@Dilli913 I have a lot of man x man and woman x woman stories in my drafts but I’m experiencing writers block and sometimes get distracted and start on a completely new book lol but I promise I will publish more. Also I never plan on incorporating non-consenting sex, I also hate seeing that in stories. If it is in a book, it’s a characters backstory and not romanticized. Thank you. 
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Dilli913

Honestly, all of this depends on who you ask. I personally would love to see all of this, but others might disagree with me. And, for the age gap, it depends on what genre. If it's a supernatural x human book, then thousand/hundreds of year age gap are okay, AS LONG AS THEY HAVE THE SAME MATURITY. Like, 2500 year old vampire would be like a 25 year old. But, if its human and there is no supernatural ages, one being 25 and the other being 40 honestly makes me a bit uncomfortable, but I have extreme tolerances. I really don't care about it. I read the craziest things, nothing makes me uncomfortable anymore EXCEPT non-consenting sex. I hate nonconsent stuff. That's literally just rape. Hope this helps! ( Also, please write more male x male I like yaoi :3 )
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kokiisSouthAfrican

@Idkhowtostopwriting pegging is a definite no and the age gap thing as long as the fmc is over 18 than a 15-20 year age gap is fine, personally 
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blkwomenarehot

What happened to were not crazy? (Idk if that was the name) but basically the bonnie and Clyde book

Dilli913

@blkwomenarehot I love the Bonnie and Clyde reference I LITERALLY just learned about them in social studies. Wasn't expecting to see it on wattpad!
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blkwomenarehot

@Idkhowtostopwriting whenever you release it again trust im gonna be the first reading it. thank YOU for writing it, it was amazing i wish it were longer. It was genuinely my favorite along with bunny and hope you can write more soon bc i love love love your work so much 
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Idkhowtostopwriting

@blkwomenarehot thank you for enjoying it! I really hope to lose the writers block I have on it because it was also my favorite plot-wise
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Idkhowtostopwriting

Hello!
          
          I have been writing consistently however I am someone who gets new ideas very often and I will start on them in the moment. With that being said, while I do write a lot, it almost never gets finished because I get distracted by new ideas or old works I was also working on. So I figured that to help me narrow my mind on one story, I’d give you guys the opportunity to decide what is published next.
          Of the options, they are each bwwm, because I have noticed readers like those and I haven’t posted one in a while. Here are the options and genres (they have already been started and are in the works a decent amount):
          
          1. Fantasy/gods/poly
          2. Fantasy/vampire/male perspective
          3. Angst/mafia/rollercoaster
          4. 60s/(it will not have any racist details, I just like the aesthetic of the 60s music industry)/singer
          
          If the majority picks one that may take a while for it to be published, I will publish a surprise to make up for my absence. Thank you for your time and patience.

-Cosmic_Child-

@Idkhowtostopwriting 2 please. There's hardly any vampire books lately 
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greeneyes577

@Idkhowtostopwriting I like the idea of 6. I like old music and the bwwm vibe will definitely go perfectly with it. Something a little different would be nice and interesting to read. Maybe it would spice things up in the bwwm category. 
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Idkhowtostopwriting

I thought it was time for another Q&A conversation post. So if you have any author questions, you can write them under here and I will answer them as soon as I can. Thank you.

blkwomenarehot

@imjustvibinfr ahh tysm for answering I thought it would be for journalism congrats on the hard work I understand you not wanting to answer the other question i just for some reason thought youd be British like every other author i read on here 
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Cassidy600892

@imjustvibinfr ahh that’s what it’s called thank youu!! Can I re have the link? Tysm for replying and I will be seated for when that time comes
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Idkhowtostopwriting

I have a few stories in the works but I have questions before I publish them. 1. Would you all like to receive a black woman main character, 50 shades of grey style story? I recently learned from responses to a film that black women would like to get their chance at being the lead protagonist and I’m very willing to publish it.
          2. How do we feel about something more fantasy related? Whether it be powers, gods, or other worlds. Or do we prefer stories that are more realistic?
          3. Do we prefer darker stories or cuter stories? (I can do both but if there’s a bigger preference for one over the other then I will post that one more)
          4. (Not a question) I’m aware Adaeze is still not finished. I’m having the worst writer’s block for that story and also don’t want it to be too long. Please bear with me until I can find my flow again.

Msskeletor

More black women for sure,  I personally love realistic stories.  Definitely the cute stories, in general I feel like we don’t have a lot of cutesy stories of black women. They usually seem to be on the darker side. 
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izzybelly717

@imjustvibinfr I LOVE the way you write fluff, so cute fs, but I'm really curious about how you'd go about something fantasy/mythology related
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blkwomenarehot

Id love to see more black women! I personally like realistic but a fantasy one from you would be amazing. Cuter fs /both 
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