itschosolover
hii i actually have a very important question. I ve heard a lot of men say that for the to control their desire is harder than it is for us girls , and that it's normal for men to cheat because of that or that it is impossible to find a man that would be a virgin before marriage (which if i don't find i am just dying happily single ) . like to be blunt i get horny too as a woman but i have control over myself to not have sex in away that I don't consider right (so before marriage..ofc that's something that can vary depending on the person). so, is it actually true that men like that don't exist? and how do i spot one ?
Jace4Chicken
Not true at all. Men just say that so they got an excuse to cheat. It’s not hard for us to control our urges at all. My boyfriend and me are both virgins first of all so yes it’s possible. He’s the most loyal partner I could’ve ever asked for. As for how to spot one? We knew each other for 8 years and were best friends so we had plenty of time to get to know each other. I would say don’t just hop into a relationship. Get to know him and be friends first! So many people are so quick to jump in a relationship before even getting to know the person. There is loyal guys out there and there is guys out there that won’t have sex before marriage! I have had guy friends like that and they usually see Christian so if you’re looking for that specifically then I’d say find a Christian man? But really it’s just get to know the guy and see if he seems trustworthy. Despite what men say, we can control our urges and I promise you the guy you’re looking for is out there
