Malec4Ever16

Okay, so this has been bothering me for a while and I just needed to get this out. I am bisexual and when I came out to my parents they were like "oh we support you and the lgbtq+ community" but then they make comments like "you can only be one gender" or "you are either female or male, they/them pronouns are weird" and "pansexual doesn't exist, being pan is just being bi" and that is so frustrating and makes me think they aren't really supportive, my friend is pan and non-binary so it was easier to come out to them. I try to educate my parents but they still just don't get it but my siblings on the other hand are cool, when I came out to them as bi my little brother just went like "okay, that's cool" and my older sister said something like "that's fine, you're still my baby sister and I accept you" , that literally made me cry bc we used to be very close but when stuff happened and my mental health became not so great I started isolating myself and we started drifting apart so when she said that it makes me think that we could repair our relationship and be close like we used to be.

stilesfavbaseballbat

sry ik this convo was in january but i'm just tired of being fake
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stilesfavbaseballbat

@Rdstsh  sry i mean i came out to my bff when i was 10 in fifth grade and came out to everyone except my parents and siblings, but then my "bff" betrayed me and told my mom, then in 7th they found a pride flag on my phone that said i'm bisexual under it and we fought abt it and they took my phone. then as soon as my mom makes progress she takes a step back. i feel like olivia rodrigo rn 
          	  "always one step forward and three steps back, plus being catcalled one second to having faggot screamed at you the next is awesome. (that was sarcasm
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EclipseAftonissavage

@Rdstsh I’m sorry that you struggled! I have very small limits so when they are tested it only takes a small bit of time before I snap so if you have strong limits I find you lucky because it probably means you don’t get as much trouble as me!
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stilesfavbaseballbat

Hey so I just wanted to tell u I love your name. I know I’m a little too late but I understand. My mom told me I was just confused but they would support me anyway but still I was just confused and then they turn around for the next three months making constantly homophobic trans phobic comments. I am 100% bisexual too I get it. Also btw don’t let anyone ever tell you you are -% straight and -% gay u can have preferences but to me u will always be 100% bisexual. Ily and support u and I hope u figure it out. Also just curious… how old are u

Malec4Ever16

@ Rdstsh  Hey, first of I want to say thank you and second I am sorry you had to go through that aswell. And I am 18 btw. It took me awhile to figure myself out especially with my parents and stuff, I am just glad I have friends who I can be myself around.
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Malec4Ever16

Okay, so this has been bothering me for a while and I just needed to get this out. I am bisexual and when I came out to my parents they were like "oh we support you and the lgbtq+ community" but then they make comments like "you can only be one gender" or "you are either female or male, they/them pronouns are weird" and "pansexual doesn't exist, being pan is just being bi" and that is so frustrating and makes me think they aren't really supportive, my friend is pan and non-binary so it was easier to come out to them. I try to educate my parents but they still just don't get it but my siblings on the other hand are cool, when I came out to them as bi my little brother just went like "okay, that's cool" and my older sister said something like "that's fine, you're still my baby sister and I accept you" , that literally made me cry bc we used to be very close but when stuff happened and my mental health became not so great I started isolating myself and we started drifting apart so when she said that it makes me think that we could repair our relationship and be close like we used to be.

stilesfavbaseballbat

sry ik this convo was in january but i'm just tired of being fake
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stilesfavbaseballbat

@Rdstsh  sry i mean i came out to my bff when i was 10 in fifth grade and came out to everyone except my parents and siblings, but then my "bff" betrayed me and told my mom, then in 7th they found a pride flag on my phone that said i'm bisexual under it and we fought abt it and they took my phone. then as soon as my mom makes progress she takes a step back. i feel like olivia rodrigo rn 
            "always one step forward and three steps back, plus being catcalled one second to having faggot screamed at you the next is awesome. (that was sarcasm
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EclipseAftonissavage

@Rdstsh I’m sorry that you struggled! I have very small limits so when they are tested it only takes a small bit of time before I snap so if you have strong limits I find you lucky because it probably means you don’t get as much trouble as me!
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