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I need the loyal court of wattpad to decide
I nearly throttled someone should I or should I have not?
Context:
He calls me racist because I tell him and his friends to shut the fuck up on the bus because they S C R E A M for any reason. It’s happened for an entire term and I was tired with it
He uses any reason to be mad at me (someone who just wants to sleep and/ or read wattpad in PEACE) and he gets in my face
I have been into a physical confrontation with him when he tried to grab my phone after my friend (who I was on call with) called them twats, he tried grabbing my phone, I grabbed his wrist and he punched me (I then punched his friend who sat next to me after I warned him to leave but me and his friend are buddies now)
Today he was doing the usual, screaming, jumping about and being annoying. That’s when I look up from my phone and he is CHOKING his friend who is red in the face and I can see his veins.
(Context since me and Thomas are army cadets and I rank higher than him I have a duty of care over him and others so I had to step in)
I stood up and walked over and I shoved Daniel’s hands of Thomas’s throat which is red, now Daniel is hitting my arm whilst I’m telling him to get away from Thomas, now Daniel’s sister is helping me and shouting at Daniel.
Later I’m sat at the back of the bus and Daniel is antagonising me and trying to get me to break his nose and he starts screaming.
His sister shouts at him and they are quiet.
I was shaking from how much I wanted to hit him and I had to clench my hands to stop me from beating the shit out of him.
What should I have done?